oldmanfan Posted October 1, 2019 Share Posted October 1, 2019 I was afraid this would happen. I work in reproductive medicine and quadruplet pregnancies are extraordinarily high risk. I have seen first hand the effects of pregnancy loss, and it is devastating for the couples that go through them. My prayers to the Whites that they find the strength to cope with their loss. 3 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
teef Posted October 1, 2019 Share Posted October 1, 2019 oh man. after our first round of ivf, we thought we were having twins. one of the embryos ended up not having a heart beat, and my wife was devastated. the physician did a great job at consoling her, and he explained how difficult and potentially dangerous these multiple pregnancies could be. as time goes on i realize how correct he was. what jeremy and his family are going through is far worse. i genuinely feel bad for these people that i've never met. 2 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Process Posted October 1, 2019 Share Posted October 1, 2019 Oh man.. so it started the day they did the gender reveal. And to have it happen one by one throughout the week, I can't imagine. Heartbreaking. 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Captain Hindsight Posted October 1, 2019 Share Posted October 1, 2019 My wife's cousin lost a child less than a day old. Just an awful awful thing to have happen to good people. After seeing the aftermath of that, I wouldn't wish it on anyone. Thankfully, they were able to have a happy, healthy child recently My heart is broken for Jeremy and his family. I hope he can find some strength to deal with this horrible situation 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
NoHuddleKelly12 Posted October 1, 2019 Share Posted October 1, 2019 Listening to him tell their story right now, incredibly emotional, I can’t believe he’s even able to get through being on air right now...all the best wishes and prayers for healing for he and his wife right now. 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LB3 Posted October 1, 2019 Share Posted October 1, 2019 Heartbreaking. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
McNubbins Posted October 1, 2019 Share Posted October 1, 2019 My heart breaks for them. I was tearing up listening to Jeremy explain the process on-air. They are truly strong people and I hope they can find some peace in this awful time. 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
YoloinOhio Posted October 1, 2019 Share Posted October 1, 2019 He set up the nursery with all 4 cribs a couple weekends ago. I thought about it and was worried it was too soon. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dablitzkrieg Posted October 1, 2019 Share Posted October 1, 2019 Ugh, this is heartbreaking. So sad Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mrbojanglezs Posted October 1, 2019 Share Posted October 1, 2019 2 minutes ago, YoloinOhio said: He set up the nursery with all 4 cribs a couple weekends ago. I thought about it and was worried it was too soon. Ya it probably was, but having 4 is crazy and you need to be prepared, as they can come at any time so you can't wait too long. Tough situation. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dollars 2 donuts Posted October 1, 2019 Share Posted October 1, 2019 (edited) Guys, I may be considered a bad fan because after losses I just don't see the point in going on about it so I really don't follow anything the week after losses...onward and upward. ...So I am only finding out about Jeremy and his wife's loss now, as I would have heard live on the radio had the Bills won on Sunday. At this moment I don't know whether I should have heard this or it would have been too hard (my wife and I lost two ourselves). I only know my words are meaningless here, because "i'm sorry" just doesn't do enough. They will not get over this because you never do...but you find a place for it, more importantly them, in your heart forever. Please God bless them, and their little ones who left us far to soon. Edited October 1, 2019 by dollars 2 donuts 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JESSEFEFFER Posted October 1, 2019 Share Posted October 1, 2019 (edited) 26 minutes ago, JESSEFEFFER said: He is talking on air about it now and my eyes are leaking. Maybe sharing his grief with us can ease his some, which is ok with me. We can try to make some good of this in their names, Zoe, Lincoln, Myles and Breckon. He mentioned this organization at the end. Western New York Perinatal Bereavement Well, I chose to make a $44.44 donation in honor of their 4 and a pair of honorary S.U. 44's. Edited October 1, 2019 by JESSEFEFFER 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dopey Posted October 1, 2019 Share Posted October 1, 2019 (edited) Trying hard to hold back tears. Sucks, really sucks. Hug your kids everyday you can. Edited October 1, 2019 by Dopey Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Over 29 years of fanhood Posted October 1, 2019 Share Posted October 1, 2019 Extremely extremely sad. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BringBackFergy Posted October 1, 2019 Share Posted October 1, 2019 So heart-wrenching. Prayers for peace and future family for the Whites. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MarkyMannn Posted October 1, 2019 Share Posted October 1, 2019 Wow that's just terrible sad news. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Phil The Thrill Posted October 1, 2019 Share Posted October 1, 2019 We argue about coaches, players, and wins/losses here and whatnot but the tragic news really puts things into perspective. All of this stuff is meaningless to what happens in “real-life” I am absolutely heartbroken for Jeremy and his wife. This news is devastating 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
thebandit27 Posted October 1, 2019 Share Posted October 1, 2019 I just... There are no words. I'm devastated for them. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jimmy10 Posted October 1, 2019 Share Posted October 1, 2019 40 minutes ago, JESSEFEFFER said: He is talking on air about it now and my eyes are leaking. Maybe sharing his grief with us can ease his some, which is ok with me. We can try to make some good of this in their names, Zoe, Lincoln, Myles and Breckon. He mentioned this organization at the end. Western New York Perinatal Bereavement I too was dabbing tears on my entire drive into work listening to it. We have two healthy kids, but one delivery got very complicated at the end. It was a textbook pregnancy up until the last 10-15 minutes. We are very fortunate, and stories like this just rip my heart out. I saw this idea on reddit: What if everyone gives a multiple of 550 that they're comfortable with? $.55, $5.50, $55.00, etc? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CountDorkula Posted October 1, 2019 Share Posted October 1, 2019 52 minutes ago, boco357 said: The part about the babies heart beats they put in the teddy bear I couldn't handle. I had to close my office door. I sat here with my hand over my mouth. I may not know Jeremy white personally, but i've met him a few times and its weird to say he has been a part of my life for 10+ years now because I listen to them every morning. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JESSEFEFFER Posted October 1, 2019 Share Posted October 1, 2019 2 minutes ago, jimmy10 said: I too was dabbing tears on my entire drive into work listening to it. We have two healthy kids, but one delivery got very complicated at the end. It was a textbook pregnancy up until the last 10-15 minutes. We are very fortunate, and stories like this just rip my heart out. I saw this idea on reddit: What if everyone gives a multiple of 550 that they're comfortable with? $.55, $5.50, $55.00, etc? That's a good idea too. I did the $44.44 so they'd know why the donation was made. I wanted to do something for the 4 who were lost and since Jeremy is a Syracuse alumnus he might appreciate a pair of "44's." Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SectionC3 Posted October 1, 2019 Share Posted October 1, 2019 43 minutes ago, YoloinOhio said: He set up the nursery with all 4 cribs a couple weekends ago. I thought about it and was worried it was too soon. I hate to say it but I had the same thought knowing the risks involved. His talk this morning was powerful and heartbreaking. His strength is also incredibly impressive. To do what he and his wife did once is more than anyone can bear. To do it four times in succession is torturous. I wanted to vomit when I listened to him because I hurt so badly for them. I have two young kids, and there’s a lot about life that didn’t understand until we had them. I have a hard time relating to what I’ll characterize as the WGR listeners now. I don’t gamble on sports, I think fantasy football is a waste of time, and I don’t have time to drink or to play golf. A young family and providing for that family take precedent. I cannot imagine what it would be like to see the “other” side — That is, to have a child and then to lose that child — and go back to the trivialities of arguing about what is the best beer, the most favorable betting line, or which defense to start in fantasy this week. It would be beyond awful. My heart breaks for them and everyone who has been through it. If he reads this, maybe the one small consolation is that he obviously was one hell of a dad to those kids in their short time on the planet and he will be an amazing father to child #5 and beyond. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jimmy10 Posted October 1, 2019 Share Posted October 1, 2019 1 minute ago, JESSEFEFFER said: That's a good idea too. I did the $44.44 so they'd know why the donation was made. I wanted to do something for the 4 who were lost and since Jeremy is a Syracuse alumnus he might appreciate a pair of "44's." Yes! Very cool gesture. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
May Day 10 Posted October 1, 2019 Share Posted October 1, 2019 Pretty courageous going on the air and sharing this with everybody. 4 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
The Jokeman Posted October 1, 2019 Share Posted October 1, 2019 This puts the whole football thing in perspective, sure I was sad/angry that the Bills lost but this was a much much bigger loss. My condolences to the entire White family on this unfortunate news. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
1ManRaid Posted October 1, 2019 Share Posted October 1, 2019 On 8/20/2019 at 8:41 AM, YoloinOhio said: Wow. Is it too late to tank? ? Congrats to him. REALLY weird seeing this now with the updated title. Took me a minute to figure out the upbeat and celebratory mood in the first page. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
shrader Posted October 1, 2019 Share Posted October 1, 2019 This thread is a good reminder that when these things happen, you should know that you're not alone. It's understandable to want to close up and deal with it on your own, but you should know that many others have gone through it and the help is out there if you're willing to look. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
eball Posted October 1, 2019 Share Posted October 1, 2019 Ugh. That's a somber reminder to not take anything in your life for granted. How awful for the family. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
zow2 Posted October 1, 2019 Share Posted October 1, 2019 Just brutal. They came out and announced it to the public and now have to publicly announce the loss. Feel so sad for them. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
OldTimeAFLGuy Posted October 1, 2019 Share Posted October 1, 2019 ..tragic....not the news we were hoping for...... 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Pine Barrens Mafia Posted October 1, 2019 Share Posted October 1, 2019 For all the differences in opinion I have with the guy, NO ONE deserves that. Prayers for him and his family. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Don Otreply Posted October 1, 2019 Share Posted October 1, 2019 Heart breaking, just so sad, my heart goes out them, Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
njbuff Posted October 1, 2019 Share Posted October 1, 2019 There is really nothing I can say about how bad of a story this is. Awful Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
NewEra Posted October 1, 2019 Share Posted October 1, 2019 Just heartbreaking. Prayers Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RoyBatty is alive Posted October 1, 2019 Share Posted October 1, 2019 Sorry, awful news. Prayers. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
corta765 Posted October 1, 2019 Share Posted October 1, 2019 1 hour ago, YoloinOhio said: I just turned it on. This is awful but I think it’s helping him to talk about it. When we miscarried talking about was therapeutic. My wife actually went to a yoga/support group once a week for women who miscarried or lost a delivery and it was big for her 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
warrior9 Posted October 1, 2019 Share Posted October 1, 2019 Wow.... listening to him speak.... it just heart wrenching. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Buffalo_Gal Posted October 1, 2019 Share Posted October 1, 2019 I am so sorry for their loss. I volunteered for years for a support group for people who had miscarriage (s), stillbirth(s) and infant death(s) to one year (I needed the group myself for a time, and volunteered to "give back"). I also got some heartbreaking Crisis Services calls during that time period, too. While support groups are not for everyone, support of some type (private, group, a friend or stranger to listen) can be very beneficial. No one should have their children die before they do, and yet, sadly, it is still all too common. 1 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
zow2 Posted October 1, 2019 Share Posted October 1, 2019 I listened to the on-demand audio of Jeremy sharing the news. That was extremely tough to listen to. I can't imagine experiencing it. My wife went in to pre-term labor with our twins. About 8 weeks early. They were really small but made it ok and are healthy teens now. Just can't imagine.. very sad. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CLTbills Posted October 1, 2019 Share Posted October 1, 2019 My God. I'm holding back tears just reading everyone's comments. I haven't even listened to Jeremy yet. I want to download it and listen later but not sure if I can handle it. My wife and I have lost two of our own. As a dad, it's awful. I can't begin to fathom losing four, and losing them in the way that they did. 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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