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It is with sadness to say that my wife of 20 years passed last evening. She was 46. She was a wonderful wife and mother and a joy to everyone she met. Die hard Bills fan. Especially loved Poyer and Knox (like most women do…haha). I’m devastated, but I can’t thank you all enough for your thoughts, prayers, well-wishes, and donations. You are all amazing and now, even more than before, a part of my family. 
 

God bless all of you, and make amends with your loved ones before it’s too late. There will be a lot of good coming from this trajedy through the advice that she has inspired and all the recipients of her organs that will get the opportunity to continue to live. 

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I work in a hospital with people in similar situations. I know life will never be the same. My thoughts are with you.

 

One thing has gotten me through great tragedy after the initial period of grief. It’s this maxim:

 

”Love from as deep a place as this pain has touched.”

 

Tragedy cuts us to depths we didn’t even know we had. The only thing that can bring light out of that new dark place is to push the seeds of love down to those depths.

 

Thats the best I have to give you brother.

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My heart strains for your loss, you have your family to lean on, and all of us here to support you as best we can🙏

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So sorry for your loss.  I referred to the below quote from Kahil Gibran often after my father's passing:

 

“When you are sorrowful look again in your heart, and you shall see that in truth you are weeping for that which has been your delight.”

 

 

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37 minutes ago, whorlnut said:

It is with sadness to say that my wife of 20 years passed last evening. She was 46. She was a wonderful wife and mother and a joy to everyone she met. Die hard Bills fan. Especially loved Poyer and Knox (like most women do…haha). I’m devastated, but I can’t thank you all enough for your thoughts, prayers, well-wishes, and donations. You are all amazing and now, even more than before, a part of my family. 
 

God bless all of you, and make amends with your loved ones before it’s too late. There will be a lot of good coming from this trajedy through the advice that she has inspired and all the recipients of her organs that will get the opportunity to continue to live. 

My heart breaks for you. I know how much I love my wife, and how lost I would be without her.

 

Although there are no words that can bring you true relief, I hope that the many memories, laughs and good times that you shared will warm your heart in this difficult hour.

 

 Sending love and good thoughts your way my friend. 

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this is heartbreaking and i cannot imagine any words offered could be enough to comfort you. feel free to post to vent, message any of us, or reach out to any of us if you need anything.

https://www.gofundme.com/f/support-jill-after-surviving-a-brain-aneurysm
@BuffaloBill maybe you could mod edit his post and include a note offering the gofundme for him and his family?

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1 hour ago, whorlnut said:

It is with sadness to say that my wife of 20 years passed last evening. She was 46. She was a wonderful wife and mother and a joy to everyone she met. Die hard Bills fan. Especially loved Poyer and Knox (like most women do…haha). I’m devastated, but I can’t thank you all enough for your thoughts, prayers, well-wishes, and donations. You are all amazing and now, even more than before, a part of my family. 
 

God bless all of you, and make amends with your loved ones before it’s too late. There will be a lot of good coming from this trajedy through the advice that she has inspired and all the recipients of her organs that will get the opportunity to continue to live. 

So sorry to hear this 😔. Your family will be in my thoughts 🙏🏼🙏🏼

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5 hours ago, whorlnut said:

It is with sadness to say that my wife of 20 years passed last evening. She was 46. She was a wonderful wife and mother and a joy to everyone she met. Die hard Bills fan. Especially loved Poyer and Knox (like most women do…haha). I’m devastated, but I can’t thank you all enough for your thoughts, prayers, well-wishes, and donations. You are all amazing and now, even more than before, a part of my family. 
 

God bless all of you, and make amends with your loved ones before it’s too late. There will be a lot of good coming from this trajedy through the advice that she has inspired and all the recipients of her organs that will get the opportunity to continue to live. 

I am so sorry. Prayers for you and your family.

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9 hours ago, whorlnut said:

It is with sadness to say that my wife of 20 years passed last evening. She was 46. She was a wonderful wife and mother and a joy to everyone she met. Die hard Bills fan. Especially loved Poyer and Knox (like most women do…haha). I’m devastated, but I can’t thank you all enough for your thoughts, prayers, well-wishes, and donations. You are all amazing and now, even more than before, a part of my family. 
 

God bless all of you, and make amends with your loved ones before it’s too late. There will be a lot of good coming from this trajedy through the advice that she has inspired and all the recipients of her organs that will get the opportunity to continue to live. 

Too young. RIP. God bless you and yours!

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whorlnut ,

 I have always always been of the belief that..

When when loved ones have to pass and head to heaven , they then look over Us with great love and caring. Perhaps even more than able while with us

 As much as we miss their touch and words and all those little things , they never truly are gone.

Now she will watch over you and all of her Family with great care 😇

She is not lost, she has ascended to the Heavens. She is still in your heart and you hers.

 

I have very good reason to believe this as fact.
 

 Prayers and love 🧡🧡

 

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12 hours ago, whorlnut said:

It is with sadness to say that my wife of 20 years passed last evening. She was 46. She was a wonderful wife and mother and a joy to everyone she met. Die hard Bills fan. Especially loved Poyer and Knox (like most women do…haha). I’m devastated, but I can’t thank you all enough for your thoughts, prayers, well-wishes, and donations. You are all amazing and now, even more than before, a part of my family. 
 

God bless all of you, and make amends with your loved ones before it’s too late. There will be a lot of good coming from this trajedy through the advice that she has inspired and all the recipients of her organs that will get the opportunity to continue to live. 

I am so sorry. I know that there are no words to ease your pain, but I do know that it becomes easier to bear as time goes on and you think of all of the good times you had together.

 

We Greeks say: May her memory be eternal.

 

I always have interpreted that to mean that, not only is Jill in heaven, but she lives on through you and everyone else she touched in life.

 

Be well my friend. I will be thinking of you and praying for Jill, you, and your family.

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