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My parents are hosting my siblings, a few cousins, aunts and uncles, etc.  The main table is in the dining room, while the "kids" table is in the living room like 10 feet away.   The living room has a TV in it, so even though I'll be 40 in a couple months....I told my Mom I'm sitting at the kids table this year.  And I wasn't joking lol

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Our family is more "up in the air" with respect to Thanksgiving than we have ever been.  My daughter gave birth to her first yesterday.  My mother-in-law went in the hospital yesterday.  We don't have much room to host and we don't know yet who will come.  The only thing we do know is dinner would happen at 1 or 2 PM, if it happens and the TV will be on when the Bills are playing.

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46 minutes ago, stevestojan said:

 

Was that a gun? 

 

1 hour ago, Just Jack said:

 

Was that a pistol she pulled out at the end?

 

You guys don't keep a handgun in a kitchen drawer for Thanksgiving? That's like the most necessary tool for Turkey Day, after a brulee torch. 

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We are hosting dinner for a San Diego Billsbackers Ex club president needless to say the game WILL be watched in real time with seafood and Cheese and crackers appetizers to hold us over and  smoked turkey with trimmings feast after the game. One daughter at home son in Brooklyn so dinner for 4 enough leftovers for an army to come. Very low stress just how I like it unless the game gets hairy I’m hoping for a blowout haha.  I wish you a very happy thanksgiving. GO BILLS!!!

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9 hours ago, Gray Beard said:

I imagine my wife and daughter will decree that the TV shall be off, unless it’s needed to calm down an antsy four year old with a Disney movie or something.  

 

I may may be able to sneak some viewing on my phone or iPad while doing dishes, which is a win-win. I get to watch the game while avoiding my in-laws, and I don’t mind doing dishes. 

Take charge, dude

Family was planning to eat around 4:00 as usual (40 people), but I informed them that that wouldn't work this year because of the Bills game. We're eating at 1:00 with plenty of time before the game so both events can be (potentially) enjoyed.

 

Two of my brothers, who are casual Bills fans, will be there. No one else will care in the slightest, so it might get annoying and I might have to drive home at halftime or something.

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I am working from home. Game starts at 8:30AM and the US team will be all offline so I am expecting a nice quiet day disregarding emails until I take a long lunch at midday. Already told the office to not bother me too much.

 

I'll message family in NYC and express my disappointment for missing Thanksgiving with them.

 

 

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We always eat at night because the guys all hunt.  We're probably going to pop out of the woods a bit earlier than usual.  I plan to sit at the end of the table where I can see the TV and keep one eye on it.  I'll abandon the table occasionally to see what's up with a big play.

 

I like that the cowboys had to play later, and away yesterday.

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I'm going to be in a household with 3 die hard Cowboy fans, my 2 brothers and uncle. To their credit, their loyal and know the game , and I already started hearing about how we have zero offense, my one brother called me last night telling me we will be easy work and we only have a Running QB. Maybe doesn't know the game too well cause Allen has progressed nicely, to his credit, he only sees what the Red Zone shows him if the Cowboys aren't playing, which they usually aren't playing at 1 pm. Man, i'm going to be ridiculously drunk if things start getting out of hand for us ,but i'm pretty optimistic about our chances Thurs.

Football pretty much stays on the main TV all day! 

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15 hours ago, Blackkat19 said:

My wife has to work the whole day so I will be watching the game at home by myself.?

 

 

That sounds great.  I would love to do that.  

 

We go over my sisters every year.  When the schedule came out I told my wife my son & I are staying home this Thanksgiving as I hate watching the game with 20 people all talking.  My wife said "fine my daughter & I will go over my cousins this year."  So everything was set until my cousins decided to come in from Vegas for Thanksgiving this year.  So now, I can't stiff my sisters because my mom will be very upset so we are going over my sisters.  My BIL does have a pretty sweet setup in his basement so I will go down there when the game starts & hopefully everybody else will stay upstairs.  

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i was pumped when the schedule first came out, but in the end it's going to make it a chore to watch the game.  thanksgiving is a big production at our place, as we usually have 40 people plus.  we're also the last stop for everyone, so there's no way we're going to eat before 5.  my wife even offered to set up a separate table in our family room for those who want to watch and eat it, but i have a feeling we'll watch as much as we can, pause the game, and go back to it after the 30 mins of fevered eating.

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So here's a question regarding maintenance of winning Game Day rituals.

 

We're now 2-0 in Bills games where I consume that bottle of Josh Cellers 2017 Cab Sauv wine, starting before kickoff and usually finishing in the 2nd half of the game.  Obviously the ritual must continue.

 

We will have 12 family members here for Thanksgiving.  Eating early (1 pm-ish) so that some of them can make a 4 hr drive home after the meal.  Most of the family are teetotallers - strict Southern Baptists - and my SIL no longer drinks alcohol.   I guess about 4 of us who would partake of wine at dinner.

 

Do I wait until most of the family leaves to open and drink the Josh, which might extend the opening until after kickoff, or even into the game? 

 

Or do I serve the bottle with dinner and likely have it consumed well before kickoff?  Dinner will be the traditional Thanksgiving lasagna (red tomato sauce) and garlic bread with veg sides, so it would be suitable.  Dessert will be pumpkin pie, the traditional cheesecake my MIL made, and brownies, so a bit heavy to consume the full bottle after dessert.

 

I'm leaning towards "serve with dinner", that as long as it's all consumed before the end of the game it should work.

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My wife and I are leaving Wed. a.m. to drive down to Georgia to see her dad and sister, but we are staying in an AirBNB.  Thursday a.m. we will head to her sister's house, where dinner will be at around 1 p.m. (thankfully these Southerners think that is a reasonable dinner time and for once, I don't disagree).  Between 3:30 and 4 we will take our leave and head back to our AirBNB where I will watch the game in blissful post-turkey splendor.  I am EXCITED for football on Thanksgiving for the first time in 15 years!

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My aunt is hosting and they said dinner is at 3ish...not thrilled about that start time as I don't want to be too full for kick-off considering I need to get a buzz on.  I think 2 PM would have been the sweet spot for the 4:30 kickoff.

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On 11/24/2019 at 7:26 PM, Gray Beard said:

No football for me.  Family coming in from out of town. Four generations in one room. No way I’m going to be able to get free. 

I am happy to spend my day with my daughter, SIL, and granddaughter. It’s the MIL and FIL I can do without. Did I mention that they are Fox News junkies?

 

Since game is on FIX maybe you can do the picture in picture thing?

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On 11/24/2019 at 5:18 PM, YoloinOhio said:

We will likely eat before the game. Usually a mid day meal around 3. Need time to be able to break out the turkey sammiches around 7. 

Same here. We are shooting for about three. My wife's family understands how important the Bills game is. We normally eat a little later but... Bills.

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4 minutes ago, PromoTheRobot said:

My wife knows not to schedule anything or expect me to do anything when the Bills are playing.

 

Mine either, because she cares about the game as much as I do. We elected to do Turkey Day alone this year, just us and the kiddos. Time the bird for about 60-90 minutes before kickoff, we'll be good to go. Hope to making celebratory turkey sammitches around 7:30. 

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On 11/25/2019 at 9:06 AM, Gordio said:

 

 

That sounds great.  I would love to do that.  

 

We go over my sisters every year.  When the schedule came out I told my wife my son & I are staying home this Thanksgiving as I hate watching the game with 20 people all talking.  My wife said "fine my daughter & I will go over my cousins this year."  So everything was set until my cousins decided to come in from Vegas for Thanksgiving this year.  So now, I can't stiff my sisters because my mom will be very upset so we are going over my sisters.  My BIL does have a pretty sweet setup in his basement so I will go down there when the game starts & hopefully everybody else will stay upstairs.  

My sister had originally invited the whole family over to her house but had to cancel out on it. Her father in-law is in very poor health so my sister and her husband decided to go there instead. But under them circumstances it is reasonable for her to cancel it.

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On 11/24/2019 at 5:21 PM, JR in Pittsburgh said:

Very tricky. Not hosting this year for first time in a long time, so I am at the mercy of the in-laws (not football fans). The start time for eating is ambiguous “afternoon.”

My in-laws understand my passion for the Bills and texted me a week ago... "so I guess we need to start dinner early, around 3, right?"

 

Love my in-laws. Haha.

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I'm in California & my family rotates the houses. We usually eat around 2-3 PM.   I found out yesterday that while we're going to be eating during the game,  this year's house will be one that the TV is visible from the dinner table & they already know to seat me where I can watch the game during Thanksgiving dinner.  

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I'm gonna miss a lot of the game it looks like. :(

My family is full of bills fans but they're the kind that mostly just insult the team and turn the game off when they go down 10-0 in the first quarter with a "typical Bills, they'll never be good" exclamation 

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I’m like 80% sure I won’t be able to watch the game at all. Might be able to watch the first few minutes and maybe catch the end if I’m lucky but I’m a guest this year and dinner is at 5:00 and these families generally stretch dinner out over the course of many hours. Wrong year for Buffalo to have a Thanksgiving game haha

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