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5 hours ago, teef said:

I went to an all boy school, so reunions aren’t really a thing, but I have a couple of very close friends I always talk to. Then there a second “tier” of guys that we meet every few months to have a dinner. Usually 5-10 guys. A lot stay in connection for business reasons.   Now that I have a son that I’m going to force to go there, I’ve started donating money. 

As did I.  Took my friend about 15 years to forgive his dad for sending him there ?

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21 minutes ago, teef said:

Was it mcquaid?  I’ve found you either love or hate that place. 

 

No from Jersey.

 

I couldn’t stand my high school at the time. My tone mellowed out a lot over time but don’t think I’d ever send my son (if I have one) there 

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I went to my 10 year reuinion from St Joes years ago, it was kinda boring. I have skipped the rest, just missed the 40th this summer. Since I don't live in the area, I rarely get a chance to run into anyone. I did attend a St. Joes NYC gathering about 3 years ago where they were giving updates on the current school and asking for donations. I guess I just don't miss the people I knew back then. 

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18 hours ago, Chef Jim said:

Not a tie per se now but they are listed as one of the beneficiaries of my trust. I have no kids so it has to go somewhere. 

 

I have an alternate suggestion if you are desperate for ideas on where to direct those funds! ?

 

Actually, this sounds a bit like me. I went to St Joes but lived out in Williamsville, so I had two sets of friends. (Hard to believe, I know!) I still hear from the neighborhood friends on rare occasions (in fact got a text last week), but lost all the St Joes guys that I was never THAT close to anyway. I did go to a football game there when I was back for the home opener, but that’s about it as far as current ties. I still attend when they do the traveling road show soliciting donations, and if there’s anything left when I die they’ll be included.  Hopefully they’ll have to wait a long time for that......

 

My parents left WNY about the time I left for college, so I guess that’s to be expected. 

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58 minutes ago, Another Fan said:

No from Jersey.

 

I couldn’t stand my high school at the time. My tone mellowed out a lot over time but don’t think I’d ever send my son (if I have one) there 

That’s understandable. It’s really one extreme or the other when it comes to schools like that, and I certainly understand both sides. 

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26 minutes ago, Guffalo said:

I went to my 10 year reuinion from St Joes years ago, it was kinda boring. I have skipped the rest, just missed the 40th this summer. Since I don't live in the area, I rarely get a chance to run into anyone. I did attend a St. Joes NYC gathering about 3 years ago where they were giving updates on the current school and asking for donations. I guess I just don't miss the people I knew back then. 

 

I don’t miss you either!    ?

 

(Class of ‘77, so we sound pretty close.) 

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48 minutes ago, Guffalo said:

Class of 78, I probably know you, I had a brother that graduated 77, another in 80

 

I lived out in the sticks and spent 3 hours a day on the bus until I got a car. It was hard to get close to many kids in HS until I had my own wheels, but by then I had a girlfriend, so....  But yeah, I’m in the yearbook next to your gang! 

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On 10/24/2018 at 1:34 PM, Guffalo said:

Class of 78, I probably know you, I had a brother that graduated 77, another in 80

 

Whoa....I thought I was old.  

class of 79 here.  And if you can read this you’re r not as old as Guff

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4 minutes ago, Chef Jim said:

 

Whoa....I thought I was old.  

class of 79 here.  And if you can read this your not as old as Guff

 

Don’t worry, you ARE old. Ancient is just ahead....if you’re lucky. 

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24 minutes ago, Chef Jim said:

 

I just want to make it to "you're how old??????"

 

OK, I’m game......you’re how old??????

 

Now you are free to do things at your own pace. 

 

My mother turns 91 in a few weeks. It’s really amazing how well she’s doing. You’d never guess 91, and I just knocked on wood. 

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5 hours ago, Augie said:

 

OK, I’m game......you’re how old??????

 

Now you are free to do things at your own pace. 

 

My mother turns 91 in a few weeks. It’s really amazing how well she’s doing. You’d never guess 91, and I just knocked on wood. 

 

None of your damn business. 

 

My mom just turned 93. 

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a few friends I keep in touch with and have lunch/dinner a few times a year

 

one has two sons in the same old school and we get together for weekend hoops tournaments

 

parents are still in the home town

 

read the obits each Sunday and send messages where appropriate in sympathy

 

 

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I've refused to go to any of the 4 high school reunions I've been invited to. 10th and 20th for Orchard Park and the same with the high school here. Seems so lame to potentially see people you didn't like then and aren't going to like any more years later.

 

I stay in touch with a few HS people (one is my tax guy) and actually have made a lot of friends in Buffalo since I began traveling for business up there in 2009. 

 

 

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It'll be ten years since I graduated next year.  If there is a reunion (class president died senior year, I'm not sure anyone has the motivation to pick up planning and such), I won't be going.  All the people from high school I still talk to (all two of them) live less than a 10 minute walk from me.  There are a couple of others I'll see on occasion (I live thirty miles from where I went to high school) but other than that no real ties to speak of.

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50 minutes ago, LeviF91 said:

It'll be ten years since I graduated next year.  If there is a reunion (class president died senior year, I'm not sure anyone has the motivation to pick up planning and such), I won't be going.  All the people from high school I still talk to (all two of them) live less than a 10 minute walk from me.  There are a couple of others I'll see on occasion (I live thirty miles from where I went to high school) but other than that no real ties to speak of.

 

10.....  it will be 30 before you know it...  :D

 

 

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17 hours ago, Augie said:

 

11 hours ago, Chef Jim said:

 

 

My mom just turned 93. 

 

My mother turns 91 in a few weeks. It’s really amazing how well she’s doing. You’d never guess 91, and I just knocked on wood. 

My parents turned a combined 200 years old two days ago...mom 3 months past her 99th birthday, dad will turn 101 in 3 months (if he makes it, don't think that's in the cards though.)

 

IHS class of 75 has smallish reunions every year in Durand Park, attended by 30-40. Big ones every 5 years attended by 200-300. Try to make them all.

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55 minutes ago, Steve O said:

My parents turned a combined 200 years old two days ago...mom 3 months past her 99th birthday, dad will turn 101 in 3 months (if he makes it, don't think that's in the cards though.)

 

IHS class of 75 has smallish reunions every year in Durand Park, attended by 30-40. Big ones every 5 years attended by 200-300. Try to make them all.

WOW! That’s really amazing! 

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Friends I grew up with on the same street...haven't seen them in 25 years or more.

 

Friends I went to HS with(graduating class of 600+ and I still live in an adjacent suburb)...unless I run into them by chance, and I happen to recognize them(unlikely lol), not since graduation in the mid 70's.

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22 hours ago, Augie said:

 

Good genes there! 

Good genes on my mom's side.  She's 92 Her oldest sibling (sister) died at 98. Her dad died at 94, a brother died at 93. Hy mother and one of her sisters (88- she dances on Polka Buzz) are the only ones left out of 9 kids. The youngest died at 83.

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1. I graduated in a class of about 900. Now the same school graduates 200.

2. I couldn't name five people from my graduating class. It may be because I moved away after graduating.

3. About five years ago I came across a website which was some kind of high school reunion tabulator. The one thing from the website that absolutely floored me were the number of deaths from my graduating class, any many of them at really young ages.

 

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58 minutes ago, \GoBillsInDallas/ said:

1. I graduated in a class of about 900. Now the same school graduates 200.

2. I couldn't name five people from my graduating class. It may be because I moved away after graduating.

3. About five years ago I came across a website which was some kind of high school reunion tabulator. The one thing from the website that absolutely floored me were the number of deaths from my graduating class, any many of them at really young ages.

 

 

Everyone i went to school with that was smoking pot starting at the age of 11 didn't make it to 50.

 

I have a list of 16 of them.

 

 

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On 10/24/2018 at 5:26 PM, Augie said:

 

  But yeah, I’m in the yearbook next to your gang! 

 What yearbook? I don't think I have any left, we have moved and had floods so many times, I doubt I even have my wedding album, although my wife accuses me of trying to hide the evidence. 

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