It's hard, but not impossible, to make a good restaurant style wings at home. Nothing beats a good industrial deep fryer.
This recipe steams wings, then uses the oven to finish them. It's rated 5-stars after 285 reviews, it must be good. https://www.foodnetwork.com/recipes/alton-brown/alton-browns-buffalo-wings-recipe-1972721
I like Alton Brown because he actually tests and optimizes his recipes before publishing.
Note: may not be hot enough for you, I'd add cayenne pepper powder to the wing sauce