Captain Hindsight Posted January 7, 2009 Share Posted January 7, 2009 Alright i know this isnt really the place for talking about your problems but i know you guys will give me a straight answer so here goes. Back in october my ex called me on the phone (im away at school) and told me she couldnt keep doing this anymore and she had to cut her losses. Later i found out there was another guy who was 27 (shes 19) and he lives n toronto (she lives in rochester) So after 14 months of dating her and everything being fine and dandy three 3 daysbefore that i flipped out at her told her she was a B word for cheating on me and she is becoming her mother (she hates her mom) At which point she told me to !@#$ off. It was a little hard for me for awhile and i had alot of problems to work thru as this is not the first time a girl has cheated on me. But after about a month or so i was doing ok i was hanging out with new people and everything was great and still is. Ive hooked up with a few people since then and im happy being single. I saw my ex yesterday for the first time since we broke up in october she was at work (wegmans) and i felt a pair of eyes glaring at me with a nice healthy death stare and sure enough it was her. I pretended not to notice and just kept going about my business. Then i sorta started laughing because i thought it was funny that she was still pissed at me. I think my reaction was pretty justified at the time and i had every right to be upset and if anyone should be mad its me. She wanted this not me. So i started thinking about it and really debated just sending her a text saying something like hey im not pissed anymore but if you wanna keep being pissed at me go right ahead but if you ever wanna be friendly and say hello im not pissed anymore. i knew i would be the one who would extend the olive branch first if ever. Should i do this or should i just let her be a B word and ruin forever what was a good relationship for a long time? Im really torn on what is the right answer Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
erynthered Posted January 7, 2009 Share Posted January 7, 2009 Quick advice? OK. Let it go. Move on with your life. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Hazed and Amuzed Posted January 7, 2009 Share Posted January 7, 2009 Alright i know this isnt really the place for talking about your problems but i know you guys will give me a straight answer so here goes. Back in october my ex called me on the phone (im away at school) and told me she couldnt keep doing this anymore and she had to cut her losses. Later i found out there was another guy who was 27 (shes 19) and he lives n toronto (she lives in rochester) So after 14 months of dating her and everything being fine and dandy three 3 daysbefore that i flipped out at her told her she was a B word for cheating on me and she is becoming her mother (she hates her mom) At which point she told me to !@#$ off. It was a little hard for me for awhile and i had alot of problems to work thru as this is not the first time a girl has cheated on me. But after about a month or so i was doing ok i was hanging out with new people and everything was great and still is. Ive hooked up with a few people since then and im happy being single. I saw my ex yesterday for the first time since we broke up in october she was at work (wegmans) and i felt a pair of eyes glaring at me with a nice healthy death stare and sure enough it was her. I pretended not to notice and just kept going about my business. Then i sorta started laughing because i thought it was funny that she was still pissed at me. I think my reaction was pretty justified at the time and i had every right to be upset and if anyone should be mad its me. She wanted this not me. So i started thinking about it and really debated just sending her a text saying something like hey im not pissed anymore but if you wanna keep being pissed at me go right ahead but if you ever wanna be friendly and say hello im not pissed anymore. i knew i would be the one who would extend the olive branch first if ever. Should i do this or should i just let her be a B word and ruin forever what was a good relationship for a long time? Im really torn on what is the right answer Let sleeping dogs lie. Don't text her, keep your eyes forward soldier. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
stuckincincy Posted January 7, 2009 Share Posted January 7, 2009 Alright i know this isnt really the place for talking about your problems but i know you guys will give me a straight answer so here goes. Back in october my ex called me on the phone (im away at school) and told me she couldnt keep doing this anymore and she had to cut her losses. Later i found out there was another guy who was 27 (shes 19) and he lives n toronto (she lives in rochester) So after 14 months of dating her and everything being fine and dandy three 3 daysbefore that i flipped out at her told her she was a B word for cheating on me and she is becoming her mother (she hates her mom) At which point she told me to !@#$ off. It was a little hard for me for awhile and i had alot of problems to work thru as this is not the first time a girl has cheated on me. But after about a month or so i was doing ok i was hanging out with new people and everything was great and still is. Ive hooked up with a few people since then and im happy being single. I saw my ex yesterday for the first time since we broke up in october she was at work (wegmans) and i felt a pair of eyes glaring at me with a nice healthy death stare and sure enough it was her. I pretended not to notice and just kept going about my business. Then i sorta started laughing because i thought it was funny that she was still pissed at me. I think my reaction was pretty justified at the time and i had every right to be upset and if anyone should be mad its me. She wanted this not me. So i started thinking about it and really debated just sending her a text saying something like hey im not pissed anymore but if you wanna keep being pissed at me go right ahead but if you ever wanna be friendly and say hello im not pissed anymore. i knew i would be the one who would extend the olive branch first if ever. Should i do this or should i just let her be a B word and ruin forever what was a good relationship for a long time? Im really torn on what is the right answer No recovery is possible. Move on, go and buy a couple of those Wendy's or McD's dollar cheeseburgers and fries. I'm not being a wiseguy...do what I say. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rubes Posted January 7, 2009 Share Posted January 7, 2009 Listen to them. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Captain Hindsight Posted January 7, 2009 Author Share Posted January 7, 2009 No recovery is possible. Move on, go and buy a couple of those Wendy's or McD's dollar cheeseburgers and fries. I'm not being a wiseguy...do what I say. How many o wise one? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
stuckincincy Posted January 7, 2009 Share Posted January 7, 2009 How many o wise one? Three burgers, 2 fries. As many as it takes for you to stop agonizing about what is not going to happen. This gal no longer likes you - I'm pretty sure you will be able to find another that will. Right? Life is bumpy, HR. Move on and good or bad times, be sure to stock up on toilet paper. Priorities that matter at the end of the day... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RayFinkle Posted January 7, 2009 Share Posted January 7, 2009 Why text her when stalking her at her place of business seems to be so effective? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dib Posted January 7, 2009 Share Posted January 7, 2009 Drive on Live well, it's the best revenge. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Captain Hindsight Posted January 7, 2009 Author Share Posted January 7, 2009 Why text her when stalking her at her place of business seems to be so effective? i work there too its not really stalking Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mead107 Posted January 7, 2009 Share Posted January 7, 2009 Let it go . Do not look back . Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
EZC-Boston Posted January 7, 2009 Share Posted January 7, 2009 Let sleeping dogs lie. Don't text her, keep your eyes forward soldier. Perfect advice. Also very shocked with the serious replies. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DaGimp Posted January 7, 2009 Share Posted January 7, 2009 Find someone better-don't settle! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ramius Posted January 7, 2009 Share Posted January 7, 2009 Just let it go. And stop hanging out with crazy chicks. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bullpen Posted January 7, 2009 Share Posted January 7, 2009 Bury it and bury the shovel. By that I mean, close that chapter of your life and move on. Trust me on this one, I'm speaking from past experience, if I had my way, I would take everything from Sept of 89 through Feb of 93 and do a lot of crap over again. Bury it and then bury the shovel. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BuffaloBud Posted January 7, 2009 Share Posted January 7, 2009 What everyone else said - MOVE ON. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
KD in CA Posted January 7, 2009 Share Posted January 7, 2009 What are you, crazy? She's still pissed and you've moved on. Calling/texting/whatevering her will only serve to allow her to try to hurt you more. Meanwhile you have nothing to gain. Have yourself a good laugh at her expense and then forget it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
PastaJoe Posted January 7, 2009 Share Posted January 7, 2009 I worked at the same place as my girlfriend senior year of high school. She was a year younger. We were going to keep our relationship going even though I was leaving for college. Before I left I had to train a new guy to take over my job. After a few months of college I got the Dear John letter, and she was now going out with the guy who took my job. I saw her during vacation and tried to get her back but it was too late. My biggest regret was that I missed the opportunity of going with a great girl I met at the start of college because I was being faithful, and by then it was too late. Long distance romances rarely work. Since your ex was treating you badly, you should ignore her and don't look back. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Gordio Posted January 7, 2009 Share Posted January 7, 2009 i work there too its not really stalking Well, if you guys both work there; there is only one solution. Pork her in the break room one last time & when your done tell her she f*cks like her mom. That will really get under her skin. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jock Sniffer Posted January 7, 2009 Share Posted January 7, 2009 It sucks that she left you for an older dude, sounds like she might have some daddy issues in addition to hating her mom. You should PM me her number, I'll talk to her for you.... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Movinon Posted January 7, 2009 Share Posted January 7, 2009 Shop at Tops Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bullpen Posted January 7, 2009 Share Posted January 7, 2009 Well, if you guys both work there; there is only one solution. Pork her in the break room one last time & when your done tell her she f*cks like her mom. That will really get under her skin. Best response so far... It sucks that she left you for an older dude, sounds like she might have some daddy issues in addition to hating her mom. You should PM me her number, I'll talk to her for you.... Second best... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dib Posted January 7, 2009 Share Posted January 7, 2009 Well, if you guys both work there; there is only one solution. Pork her in the break room one last time & when your done tell her she f*cks like her mom. It's true. She does. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
The Poojer Posted January 7, 2009 Share Posted January 7, 2009 Pics? Alright i know this isnt really the place for talking about your problems but i know you guys will give me a straight answer so here goes. Back in october my ex called me on the phone (im away at school) and told me she couldnt keep doing this anymore and she had to cut her losses. Later i found out there was another guy who was 27 (shes 19) and he lives n toronto (she lives in rochester) So after 14 months of dating her and everything being fine and dandy three 3 daysbefore that i flipped out at her told her she was a B word for cheating on me and she is becoming her mother (she hates her mom) At which point she told me to !@#$ off. It was a little hard for me for awhile and i had alot of problems to work thru as this is not the first time a girl has cheated on me. But after about a month or so i was doing ok i was hanging out with new people and everything was great and still is. Ive hooked up with a few people since then and im happy being single. I saw my ex yesterday for the first time since we broke up in october she was at work (wegmans) and i felt a pair of eyes glaring at me with a nice healthy death stare and sure enough it was her. I pretended not to notice and just kept going about my business. Then i sorta started laughing because i thought it was funny that she was still pissed at me. I think my reaction was pretty justified at the time and i had every right to be upset and if anyone should be mad its me. She wanted this not me. So i started thinking about it and really debated just sending her a text saying something like hey im not pissed anymore but if you wanna keep being pissed at me go right ahead but if you ever wanna be friendly and say hello im not pissed anymore. i knew i would be the one who would extend the olive branch first if ever. Should i do this or should i just let her be a B word and ruin forever what was a good relationship for a long time? Im really torn on what is the right answer Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ieatcrayonz Posted January 7, 2009 Share Posted January 7, 2009 Alright i know this isnt really the place for talking about your problems but i know you guys will give me a straight answer so here goes. The standard answer applies for you: 1. Find Hamdan 2. Exact revenge Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Captain Hindsight Posted January 7, 2009 Author Share Posted January 7, 2009 It sucks that she left you for an older dude, sounds like she might have some daddy issues in addition to hating her mom. You should PM me her number, I'll talk to her for you.... Haha you really want it? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tennesseeboy Posted January 7, 2009 Share Posted January 7, 2009 At a certain point relationships go into a death spiral...and if you start with that contact you'll just get into one. Nothing wrong with a contact saying in essence "I'm sorry things ended badly" but then again...there's nothing RIGHT with it either. Things ended, whether badly or not if irrelevant in the long run. Think about it. Do you want to try to rekindle the relationship? If that is your goal don't dick around with one of these cutesy letters that are sure to cause problems. Gotta lick your wounds and move on... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Captain Hindsight Posted January 7, 2009 Author Share Posted January 7, 2009 The standard answer applies for you: 1. Find Hamdan 2. Exact revenge Hamdan is getting rady to heal Trent so he was busy Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tux of Borg Posted January 7, 2009 Share Posted January 7, 2009 This wegmans gig is just a temp job, right? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
The Avenger Posted January 7, 2009 Share Posted January 7, 2009 Pics? Wow - 24 replies before we got to this obligatory response - this place is slipping.... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dan III Posted January 7, 2009 Share Posted January 7, 2009 This wegmans gig is just a temp job, right? I don't know why, but your post made me think of.. Spanish: Damn, I gonna end up workin' at Red Lobster. Frat Brother: You already work at Red Lobster. Spanish: Yea, but its part time... dick. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
The Poojer Posted January 7, 2009 Share Posted January 7, 2009 i was also surprised as i replied before reading responses...i expected at least 15 "pic" replies Wow - 24 replies before we got to this obligatory response - this place is slipping.... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mead107 Posted January 7, 2009 Share Posted January 7, 2009 i was also surprised as i replied before reading responses...i expected at least 15 "pic" replies Naked pic ? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MarkAF43 Posted January 7, 2009 Share Posted January 7, 2009 Naked pic ? naked video? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cantankerous Posted January 7, 2009 Share Posted January 7, 2009 See signature. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
gmac17 Posted January 7, 2009 Share Posted January 7, 2009 go through her checkout line with the biggest box of condoms you can find. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dwight Drane Posted January 7, 2009 Share Posted January 7, 2009 go through her checkout line with the biggest box of condoms you can find. Along with 2 bananas, and a can of whipped cream. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tcali Posted January 7, 2009 Share Posted January 7, 2009 Alright i know this isnt really the place for talking about your problems but i know you guys will give me a straight answer so here goes. Back in october my ex called me on the phone (im away at school) and told me she couldnt keep doing this anymore and she had to cut her losses. Later i found out there was another guy who was 27 (shes 19) and he lives n toronto (she lives in rochester) So after 14 months of dating her and everything being fine and dandy three 3 daysbefore that i flipped out at her told her she was a B word for cheating on me and she is becoming her mother (she hates her mom) At which point she told me to !@#$ off. It was a little hard for me for awhile and i had alot of problems to work thru as this is not the first time a girl has cheated on me. But after about a month or so i was doing ok i was hanging out with new people and everything was great and still is. Ive hooked up with a few people since then and im happy being single. I saw my ex yesterday for the first time since we broke up in october she was at work (wegmans) and i felt a pair of eyes glaring at me with a nice healthy death stare and sure enough it was her. I pretended not to notice and just kept going about my business. Then i sorta started laughing because i thought it was funny that she was still pissed at me. I think my reaction was pretty justified at the time and i had every right to be upset and if anyone should be mad its me. She wanted this not me. So i started thinking about it and really debated just sending her a text saying something like hey im not pissed anymore but if you wanna keep being pissed at me go right ahead but if you ever wanna be friendly and say hello im not pissed anymore. i knew i would be the one who would extend the olive branch first if ever. Should i do this or should i just let her be a B word and ruin forever what was a good relationship for a long time? Im really torn on what is the right answer take the advice of an old guy......unless you reallllly want to get back with her...and you feel you are destined to be with eachother-----just forget it....dont leave the messages etc. move on. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
The Dean Posted January 7, 2009 Share Posted January 7, 2009 Quick advice? OK. Let it go. Move on with your life. I can't think of any reason to renew and/or prolong the bitterness. There is no reason to say anything. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
NavyBillsFan Posted January 8, 2009 Share Posted January 8, 2009 Call her new man and let him know that every time he goes down on her, he has a little taste of you. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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