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Week 15 Bills @ Broncos Postgame Thread
foreboding replied to Chandler#81's topic in The Stadium Wall
My God! I am so happy. For all the fans, current and past, for all the players for any era...we can all say it with pride. WE are the Buffalo Bills. "Is thing on? Cause it's about to be." --quoted from a current bills fan, happens to be a former coach -
The 1st AFC East Title of the Kelly Regime
foreboding replied to Motorin''s topic in The Stadium Wall Archives
I was at that game, it was stressful and holy crap exciting when we won, I did not run on the field, but I remember we all passed the posts up to Ralph in his suite. -
Ha Ha Ha! Same. Thank God, as I think leadership is less about being a Mensa as opposed to be "smart enough" and having the right mindset as you said. Here is why: growth mindset people ARE NOT threatened by the intelligence they surround themselves with. The smarter, the better, when you are not "fixed" into a small view of yourself and the world, you can easily find the best people.
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I can tell you from personal experience, formal adoption of growth mindset has changed my life and I have mentioned it several times here over the years. I resist backsliding to a fixed mind and so reading more about it and talking with like-minded people or folks who love the message is motivating. It is easy to trapped into a fixed mindset (society encourages it), but it is toxic. When you start to find the most value in the actual learning, your entire life is transformed. You no longer spiral, you instead see a mistake as a fantastic learning tool and thereby, always gain something from any meaningful interaction or event. You can hear it reflected in the words of our team's players. They own the mistakes but also make good by them. It is why Josh is growing so quickly. No failure, just another chance to learn and grow. It is a process, you don't just change overnight, but Coach is teaching these young men a lifelong philosophy that will forever guide them. Selfishly, it bodes well for our football future.
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Herbert looks like the real deal, doesn't he? Unless he regresses next year. I do not think he will though. Herbert, Allen, Mahomes and you also have Joe Burrow. Lamar is a game wrecker, but what if he can no longer rush for 100 yards per game?
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Great post OP, but I think what you described is a result of the process, not the process itself. Sean's process is built around the idea of a GROWTH MINDSET. This was crystallized in the seminal work of Carol Dweck. Sean mentions the growth mindset, often. Read her book, phenomenal. Anyway, the crux is this: and it broadly categorizes folks into two categories, Fixed and Growth mindset. Fixed people hold dear the things that define them. I am faster, the smartest, richest, the best looking..." whatever it is, and they can be nearly delusional in their attempts to prove and remind us all. They do not handle coaching well (they already know everything) and public failure is anathema to them. If you try to challenge their precious self-image they will not react well. Think of public people who mirror this mindset, politics is a great place to start. Growth mindset people/teachings view life as a process. When you fail, it present an opportunity, rather than you being a failure. An opportunity to say "cool, what can I learn from this?" Growth mindset people not only want feedback, they crave it as every meaningful interaction brings growth and that IS THE reward. Learn and grow is the continuous end, it is the process. In a world that encourages the individual, this process breeds accountability and community. The natural result are more humble, hungry people who are on a road to success that will never end. Sean has done a masterful job, but it starts with him. If he is not on that same road, it is hypocrisy and we know that is always found out.
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Encouraging words for the Bills
foreboding replied to 60’s Bills Fan's topic in The Stadium Wall Archives
There was definitely smoke of a sort involved in this post! -
Bills will be a tough ticket next year
foreboding replied to vanhalen26's topic in The Stadium Wall Archives
I know of several folks who have died, well-intentioned, good folks. Some were also the type who would not get a vaccine. You do it not only for you, but for your fellow people, in this case, your fellow Bills fans. If we all do it, this thing will be over much sooner. It is a kindness for all humankind. -
Prioritize which upcoming UFA’s to re-sign
foreboding replied to Dkollidas's topic in The Stadium Wall Archives
How can you not love Milano? But availability is the best ability and he misses way to many games. Keep o-line. -
On her turf - Kim Pegula opening the door for women
foreboding replied to BuffaloBill's topic in The Stadium Wall Archives
Good for her. Glad our team is leading. -
Herd has Buffalo over KC as top team in NFL
foreboding replied to racketmaster's topic in The Stadium Wall Archives
Not anymore, now he is a part of the process! 🤣 -
Can we sign Kareem Hunt next year ?
foreboding replied to Teddy KGB's topic in The Stadium Wall Archives
You are not part of the process, this I can see clearly. To the practice squad with you! -
I'll take my chances!
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Seriously. But one would hope that NYC is not really a great place for Daboll and his huge family, he seems a small-town guy. But it the Northeast is where his extended family live. LA is far, but would be a nice place to land with some good talent, Daboll would turn that program around immediately. Where else might he land? Houston? I doubt Pederson gets fired or that would be a decent spot for him. Any chance is he not interested in being the top guy? Maybe he will take 2 mill a year and stay?!?
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I dont think it ever got so bad for us. They dream of Juju as their prized possible FA for a new qb, but most doubt anyone will want to sign with the jests. https://forums.theganggreen.com/threads/cards-get-hopkins-for-murray-bills-get-diggs-for-allen-jets.94807/page-2 I do remember the days we would have to overpay. Thank God for our leaders now.
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Thoughts on Chris Brown - One Bills Live?
foreboding replied to Matt_In_NH's topic in The Stadium Wall Archives
I like him and Tasker. It cracks me up how bad Steve is at the little quizzes Brown gives him. -
Week 14 SNF Bills vs Steelers 2nd Half Gameday Thread
foreboding replied to Chandler#81's topic in The Stadium Wall Archives
Yes. You always knew they'd figure it out and the defense would always make a big play. Feels good!!! You could see the look in Josh's eyes after that first td in q3. I told my daughter, watch, they will score again. -
Chris and Mike, nice long take on Bills & Win
foreboding replied to foreboding's topic in The Stadium Wall Archives
For sure. They do not hold onto dumb narratives either. When they are wrong, they give up their position. -
Who is more instrumental in building the Bills?
foreboding replied to Beerball's topic in The Stadium Wall Archives
Does it matter?