That's exactly right. I will not listen to the equality narrative any longer unless some of the concerns I have get heard.
The ladder is right there, just climb on out. No need to keep telling me your stuck. No need to keep blaming everyone but yourself and those close to you that helped you be stuck. Just take the first step on that ladder, then the next, until you're out. Changing the mindset of some white racist isn't going to climb that ladder for you.