Two things to mention here.........
1) i have an issue when people i haven't talked to in 30 years somehow want to be friends on Facebook. I mean, there's a reason why i haven't talked to them in 30 years..........get over it and deal with it.
2) i just received this week, a letter from my real parents (i'm adopted and have been looking for them for over 30 years). Imagine my surprise when i open my mail and here's a letter that says, "Hey, we're your parents and we want to meet".............um, what?
I've been trying my hardest to meet you for over 30 years with zero results and then out of the blue, i get a letter that they want to meet?
Well..........we'll meet on MY terms.