NoSaint Posted January 26, 2011 Share Posted January 26, 2011 Pooj, you're in a lose-lose situation. Choose to lose the least. As tempting as it appears to be to interject yourself more directly into the situation, the potential for losing big is great if you do so. Not only can your boss screw you, but your Grand boss can too. He might be a ****, but it's not your job to make him a better person. Peace. yea its no good -- even if you do what you feel is the moral thing, she might not welcome the feedback. just something to keep in mind. if the husband found out, you might lose both the job and a friend. when put in a situation where she might feel she has to choose between her husband, childrens father, house and life they have together.... its very hard to walk away even if you know something is going on. odds are she already knows, and truly you arent bringing anything new to the table from what was shared. nothing to gain but your own peace of mind, everything to lose. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
erynthered Posted January 26, 2011 Share Posted January 26, 2011 He's said numorus time he's going to keep his mouth shut. Damn. I'VE GOTTA BE HEARD!!!!!!!!!!!!! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
NoSaint Posted January 27, 2011 Share Posted January 27, 2011 He's said numorus time he's going to keep his mouth shut. Damn. I'VE GOTTA BE HEARD!!!!!!!!!!!!! jeeeze -- didnt mean to offend. was just adding my 2 cents... nothing big. and from my experience when the head and heart battle, even when you say the head has won, a few affirmations as to why help you stick to that decision. i promise at some point since the post saying "yea i wont do it" he has thought twice. its only natural. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
erynthered Posted January 27, 2011 Share Posted January 27, 2011 jeeeze -- didnt mean to offend. was just adding my 2 cents... nothing big. and from my experience when the head and heart battle, even when you say the head has won, a few affirmations as to why help you stick to that decision. i promise at some point since the post saying "yea i wont do it" he has thought twice. its only natural. No biggie, just sayin Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Miyagi-Do Karate Posted January 27, 2011 Share Posted January 27, 2011 shiv the mofo an option?? BTW, am i the only one who buys his explanation? Sound feasible to me, may have had to do something similiar for my own 22 year old smoking hot nanny a few times when she was in the exact situation I actually buy it. If he were having an affair, would he really put the hotel charge on his credit card? Of course, he might just be that stupid. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Captain Hindsight Posted January 27, 2011 Share Posted January 27, 2011 Its best not to get involved furthur than being supportive...you dont know anything..you suspect things and if your wrong it could turn bad for you real quick Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ajzepp Posted January 27, 2011 Share Posted January 27, 2011 Pooj, I'm almost positive there is a movie in theaters right now about your exact situation....go see it, and if the outcome is positive then just do whatever they did Solution! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Gordio Posted January 27, 2011 Share Posted January 27, 2011 Man, I got to hire a nanny for my house. I do not care if I have to get a paper route on the weekends to afford it. It sounds like it is well worth it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ajzepp Posted January 27, 2011 Share Posted January 27, 2011 Man, I got to hire a nanny for my house. I do not care if I have to get a paper route on the weekends to afford it. It sounds like it is well worth it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Doc Posted January 27, 2011 Share Posted January 27, 2011 In this economy, your job is more important than your friendship. Not that you saying nothing and him cheating on her will kill your friendship with her. I'd just tell her "you were there, trust your instincts" and leave it at that. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jim in Anchorage Posted January 27, 2011 Share Posted January 27, 2011 Man, I got to hire a nanny for my house. I do not care if I have to get a paper route on the weekends to afford it. It sounds like it is well worth it. Me to and I don't even have kids. Would that raise suspicions? There was a TV show on years ago about a nanny and that was one smoking hot babe. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bbb Posted January 28, 2011 Share Posted January 28, 2011 One of my friend's friends started banging the hot nanny or babysitter or whatever she is when she was something like 17 and he was 38 or so.......Now, they're married......My friends are all like "My wife would never get a hot babysitter!".......I said I'm going to get one (and, like you said, I don't even have kids) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mr_Blizzard Posted January 28, 2011 Share Posted January 28, 2011 Stay out of it. NEVER get involved with others marital problems in any way shape or form. Amen - if she bought the husband's excuse, she doesn't want to hear or believe the truth. Not much you can do, other than to stay out of the way. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BLZFAN4LIFE Posted January 28, 2011 Share Posted January 28, 2011 I wonder what They would do. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Just Jack Posted January 28, 2011 Share Posted January 28, 2011 There was a TV show on years ago about a nanny and that was one smoking hot babe. This one? or this one? or this one? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
The Poojer Posted January 29, 2011 Author Share Posted January 29, 2011 i may get crucified for this...but fran drescher was sooooo smoking hot....i still watch the nanny on nick at nite....what a friggin body on her.....she was awesome in spinal tap as well...which she reprised the role in at least one episode of the nanny.... This one? or this one? or this one? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Booster4324 Posted January 29, 2011 Share Posted January 29, 2011 i may get crucified for this...but fran drescher was sooooo smoking hot....i still watch the nanny on nick at nite....what a friggin body on her.....she was awesome in spinal tap as well...which she reprised the role in at least one episode of the nanny.... She was hot. When she wasn't talking that is. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jim in Anchorage Posted January 29, 2011 Share Posted January 29, 2011 This one? or this one? or this one? # 2. Irritating fake NYC accent, but real hot. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
\GoBillsInDallas/ Posted January 29, 2011 Share Posted January 29, 2011 (edited) a work holiday party(one where spouses and dates weren't invited) You have a strange office. Edited January 29, 2011 by \GoBillsInDallas/ Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Just Jack Posted January 29, 2011 Share Posted January 29, 2011 You have a strange office. Where I work is like that also. I figure it's just because they pay for everything (food/drinks/rides if needed) that if spouses/so were invited, that would double their party cost. And trust me, they don't skimp on the costs. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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