Part of your "problem" (sorry, bad way to put it) is you became a fan as the Bills were reaching their peak as a franchise. You had 7-8 good years, plus a couple Flutie years, to enjoy your fandom. Those good, early years left a strong impression of a really good team that was well run and fun to watch.
However, more recently, you are seeing the team that someone like me started with in 1968. Bad players, bad coaching, bad management and bad luck. The press is jumping down their throats and ridiculing the team you love. It's a painful thing to watch.
Try to not take it so seriously - enjoy it for what it is - a diversion and a chance to commiserate with like-minded people and have some fun for a few hours each week. Don't take it personally when anonymous people on a message board dish out tough love. They are people that are hurting too; they are just dysfunctional in showing it.
And don't try to drink it away - that ends badly.