I think the philosophy of only bringing in "high culture" guys tends to lead to these types of situations. Sometimes a little ferocity is beneficial. If you don't have that inner fire on the field, you're not going to dominate. Josh Allen has it. When we tried to tame him we went backwards.
I was never a fan of Ray Lewis but he terrorized teams. Not someone the Bills would probably every consider having on their roster.
As the old saying goes. Nice guys finish last.