My mom will be 92 this weekend. She was widowed at 64 and has lived by herself. When I had a stroke in 2014, she arranged for my brother and brother-in-law to go out to California to get me and my stuff. I did not have relatives out there, so I moved back in with her in Cheektowaga. Since then , her health is slowly deteriorating. She can still get around with a walker and can cook stuff in the microwave. I have to do the wash, shop and stuff like that. My sister comes over and pays her bills online about once a week. My brother is taking care of the house repairs, etc. Sometimes it is a pain because she wants stuff done immediately when asking for it and forgets she asked. She will apologize for having me do stuff for her, but I have the view that she wiped my butt so many times when I was an infant, and it is my turn to help her. She is grateful that I am back and said that if I wasn't, she would be in assisted living or a nursing home. I want her to pass at home. I expect that one day when I wake up she will have peaceful passed in her sleep like she wants to.