My mom is almost 92. She can get around with a walker and still has her faculties . Her memory is slowly going like asking me to do something several times in a few hours , but she can take care of herself. When I had my stroke 4 years ago, she paid to have ny brother and brother-in-law come out to California to bring me and my stuff back to Buffalo (I had no relatives in CA). I recovered and have been taking care of her since like having to do the wash, clean the house, and shop for her. She says she is sorry that she has to rely on me for these things, but I tell her that I am happy to pay her back for rescuing me from having to stay in a nursing home while I was rehabbing. I tell her she had to wipe my ass so many times when I was a baby and now it is my turn to help her out now.