R. Rich Posted October 20, 2004 Share Posted October 20, 2004 I did post those jokes in the spirit of the original post, which was a joke (hence the Silly Unfocused Wednseday, or SUW, tag). I really didn't want to offend anyone. I joke a lot about race just because it's something I know a lot about. I know all about white people's attitudes towards blacks, black people's attitudes towards whites, and everyone's attitudes towards blacks and whites together. I've dealt with racism on all those fronts, so to me, it's not a big deal. In order to keep my sanity, I just don't let that stuff get to me. Otherwise, my wife and I couldn't go out in public and have a good time because I'd be worried about people looking and whispering about "the black guy with the white lady." I was introduced to racism when I was very young and in order to cope, I'd do things like laugh along with the "n***er jokes" (as my classmates would affectionately refer to them) and even go as far as learning them and beating them to the punch line. That would make them go nuts! So, I've had a very cavalier attitude towards racism. Other people who are with me sometimes wonder how I can listen to certain comments or how I can laugh at those kind of jokes, but that was my defense mechanism and it has worked for the most part. It takes A LOT to get me heated to the point where words will make me want to fight with someone. I do realize that not everyone shares this perspective, so I do apologize for anyone being offended by the jokes. Most people realize that I was joking around but I see that not everyone is aware of that and also not everyone thinks it was funny. I hope those people know that I'm sincere in my apology and that it was all in good fun. Bad judgment, it seems. I'll lay off that stuff. Okay, back to bashing the Bills, baseball talk, and all that other crap. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rico Posted October 20, 2004 Share Posted October 20, 2004 What jokes? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
The Poojer Posted October 20, 2004 Share Posted October 20, 2004 personally i thought they were hilarious, and i am irish AND itallian, and they were both included! I did post those jokes in the spirit of the original post, which was a joke (hence the Silly Unfocused Wednseday, or SUW, tag). I really didn't want to offend anyone. I joke a lot about race just because it's something I know a lot about. I know all about white people's attitudes towards blacks, black people's attitudes towards whites, and everyone's attitudes towards blacks and whites together. I've dealt with racism on all those fronts, so to me, it's not a big deal. In order to keep my sanity, I just don't let that stuff get to me. Otherwise, my wife and I couldn't go out in public and have a good time because I'd be worried about people looking and whispering about "the black guy with the white lady." I was introduced to racism when I was very young and in order to cope, I'd do things like laugh along with the "n***er jokes" (as my classmates would affectionately refer to them) and even go as far as learning them and beating them to the punch line. That would make them go nuts! So, I've had a very cavalier attitude towards racism. Other people who are with me sometimes wonder how I can listen to certain comments or how I can laugh at those kind of jokes, but that was my defense mechanism and it has worked for the most part. It takes A LOT to get me heated to the point where words will make me want to fight with someone. I do realize that not everyone shares this perspective, so I do apologize for anyone being offended by the jokes. Most people realize that I was joking around but I see that not everyone is aware of that and also not everyone thinks it was funny. I hope those people know that I'm sincere in my apology and that it was all in good fun. Bad judgment, it seems. I'll lay off that stuff. Okay, back to bashing the Bills, baseball talk, and all that other crap. 77789[/snapback] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
stevestojan Posted October 20, 2004 Share Posted October 20, 2004 I did post those jokes in the spirit of the original post, which was a joke (hence the Silly Unfocused Wednseday, or SUW, tag). I really didn't want to offend anyone. I joke a lot about race just because it's something I know a lot about. I know all about white people's attitudes towards blacks, black people's attitudes towards whites, and everyone's attitudes towards blacks and whites together. I've dealt with racism on all those fronts, so to me, it's not a big deal. In order to keep my sanity, I just don't let that stuff get to me. Otherwise, my wife and I couldn't go out in public and have a good time because I'd be worried about people looking and whispering about "the black guy with the white lady." I was introduced to racism when I was very young and in order to cope, I'd do things like laugh along with the "n***er jokes" (as my classmates would affectionately refer to them) and even go as far as learning them and beating them to the punch line. That would make them go nuts! So, I've had a very cavalier attitude towards racism. Other people who are with me sometimes wonder how I can listen to certain comments or how I can laugh at those kind of jokes, but that was my defense mechanism and it has worked for the most part. It takes A LOT to get me heated to the point where words will make me want to fight with someone. I do realize that not everyone shares this perspective, so I do apologize for anyone being offended by the jokes. Most people realize that I was joking around but I see that not everyone is aware of that and also not everyone thinks it was funny. I hope those people know that I'm sincere in my apology and that it was all in good fun. Bad judgment, it seems. I'll lay off that stuff. Okay, back to bashing the Bills, baseball talk, and all that other crap. 77789[/snapback] Well put. And Again, Ill bring a beer over from my tailgate in 11 days. Go Bills. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
aussiew Posted October 20, 2004 Share Posted October 20, 2004 Thank you Rich. Since I'm white, I can't say that I was "offended". However, considering the feelings of some my black friends, I was deeply hurt by some of the "jokes" It takes a real man to offer an apology - I'm proud to know you. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guffalo Posted October 20, 2004 Share Posted October 20, 2004 It takes a real man to offer an apology - 77820[/snapback] And since R Rich is so damn cheap, for him to offer anything is even more impressive! Just kidding you big lug Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Thailog80 Posted October 20, 2004 Share Posted October 20, 2004 You're still a black white supremist.... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nodnarb Posted October 20, 2004 Share Posted October 20, 2004 if people aren't secure enough to laugh at themselves, fuggem. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Like A Mofo Posted October 20, 2004 Share Posted October 20, 2004 I thought the jokes were hilarious too R.Rich, I dont know why some got so bent out of shape about it...Great post. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CircleTheWagons Posted October 20, 2004 Share Posted October 20, 2004 Thank you Rich. Since I'm white, I can't say that I was "offended". However, considering the feelings of some my black friends, I was deeply hurt by some of the "jokes" It takes a real man to offer an apology - I'm proud to know you. 77820[/snapback] But isn't the JAFA in your sig typically a derogatory term (at least it is among my Kiwi friends during a rugby test ) Why don't we just delete the thread - it's probably against the TOS anyway. By the way I agree that it's impressive for R. Rich to step up and apologize. I don't think anyone who reads the board regularly could question his character. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
millbank Posted October 20, 2004 Share Posted October 20, 2004 I appreciate you and think you are a fine person. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Gavin in Va Beach Posted October 20, 2004 Share Posted October 20, 2004 I am offended by this post. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
stevestojan Posted October 20, 2004 Share Posted October 20, 2004 "The Republican National Committee is responsible for the contents of this post." Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Generation ME Posted October 20, 2004 Share Posted October 20, 2004 As a Muslim Jewish Christian Swiss Irishman, I wasn't offended. Just confused. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Paco Posted October 20, 2004 Share Posted October 20, 2004 People need to lighten the fug up. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
_BiB_ Posted October 20, 2004 Share Posted October 20, 2004 I thought some of them were pretty funny. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
erynthered Posted October 20, 2004 Share Posted October 20, 2004 As a Muslim Jewish Christian Swiss Irishman, I wasn't offended. Just confused. 77915[/snapback] Go play with your remote......... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Triumph the Dog Posted October 20, 2004 Share Posted October 20, 2004 People need to lighten the fug up. 77919[/snapback] Thats the truth you ****. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Fan in Chicago Posted October 20, 2004 Share Posted October 20, 2004 I did post those jokes in the spirit of the original post, which was a joke (hence the Silly Unfocused Wednseday, or SUW, tag). I really didn't want to offend anyone. Okay, back to bashing the Bills, baseball talk, and all that other crap. 77789[/snapback] /quote] I am offended that you did not have any jokes about (Asian) Indians. Aren't we funny enough ? Too nerdy for you ? huh ? huh ? Just kidding - your apology, if it was ever required, is evidence of your fine personality. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CajunBillsBacker Posted October 20, 2004 Share Posted October 20, 2004 No apology needed R.Rich, some people still are too damn sensitive when it comes to topics like racism. I've never met you before, but you are one of the few people here who I like to read every post from here and on Bills Zone. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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