When I was in grad school, the lab I was in had a black lab tech who was about late 40s at the time and a fellow student in the lab who was black. The fellow student grew up in Williamsville. He started dressing like a rasta and was talking about moving to Africa so that he could have more than one wife (he was already married). He started saying that I had a lilly white upbringing (a sort of putting me down). He mist have said some of that in front of his dad (who was retired military and had a very good city job) because week or so later, he apologized to me and he realized he had a more lily white upbringing than me by growing up in williamsville.
While he was talking a bout moving to Africa, our lab tech put a jar on the lab bench labeled "The send Bob to Africa Fund".?