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Well, if you guys both work there; there is only one solution. Pork her in the break room one last time & when your done tell her she f*cks like her mom. That will really get under her skin.

 

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It sucks that she left you for an older dude, sounds like she might have some daddy issues in addition to hating her mom. You should PM me her number, I'll talk to her for you....

 

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Well, if you guys both work there; there is only one solution. Pork her in the break room one last time & when your done tell her she f*cks like her mom.

 

 

 

It's true. She does.

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Pics?

 

Alright i know this isnt really the place for talking about your problems but i know you guys will give me a straight answer so here goes.

 

Back in october my ex called me on the phone (im away at school) and told me she couldnt keep doing this anymore and she had to cut her losses. Later i found out there was another guy who was 27 (shes 19) and he lives n toronto (she lives in rochester) So after 14 months of dating her and everything being fine and dandy three 3 daysbefore that i flipped out at her told her she was a B word for cheating on me and she is becoming her mother (she hates her mom) At which point she told me to !@#$ off. It was a little hard for me for awhile and i had alot of problems to work thru as this is not the first time a girl has cheated on me. But after about a month or so i was doing ok i was hanging out with new people and everything was great and still is. Ive hooked up with a few people since then and im happy being single.

 

I saw my ex yesterday for the first time since we broke up in october she was at work (wegmans) and i felt a pair of eyes glaring at me with a nice healthy death stare and sure enough it was her. I pretended not to notice and just kept going about my business. Then i sorta started laughing because i thought it was funny that she was still pissed at me. I think my reaction was pretty justified at the time and i had every right to be upset and if anyone should be mad its me. She wanted this not me.

 

So i started thinking about it and really debated just sending her a text saying something like hey im not pissed anymore but if you wanna keep being pissed at me go right ahead but if you ever wanna be friendly and say hello im not pissed anymore. i knew i would be the one who would extend the olive branch first if ever. Should i do this or should i just let her be a B word and ruin forever what was a good relationship for a long time? Im really torn on what is the right answer

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At a certain point relationships go into a death spiral...and if you start with that contact you'll just get into one. Nothing wrong with a contact saying in essence "I'm sorry things ended badly" but then again...there's nothing RIGHT with it either. Things ended, whether badly or not if irrelevant in the long run.

 

Think about it. Do you want to try to rekindle the relationship? If that is your goal don't dick around with one of these cutesy letters that are sure to cause problems.

 

Gotta lick your wounds and move on...

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This wegmans gig is just a temp job, right?

I don't know why, but your post made me think of..

 

Spanish: Damn, I gonna end up workin' at Red Lobster.

Frat Brother: You already work at Red Lobster.

Spanish: Yea, but its part time... dick.

 

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Alright i know this isnt really the place for talking about your problems but i know you guys will give me a straight answer so here goes.

 

Back in october my ex called me on the phone (im away at school) and told me she couldnt keep doing this anymore and she had to cut her losses. Later i found out there was another guy who was 27 (shes 19) and he lives n toronto (she lives in rochester) So after 14 months of dating her and everything being fine and dandy three 3 daysbefore that i flipped out at her told her she was a B word for cheating on me and she is becoming her mother (she hates her mom) At which point she told me to !@#$ off. It was a little hard for me for awhile and i had alot of problems to work thru as this is not the first time a girl has cheated on me. But after about a month or so i was doing ok i was hanging out with new people and everything was great and still is. Ive hooked up with a few people since then and im happy being single.

 

I saw my ex yesterday for the first time since we broke up in october she was at work (wegmans) and i felt a pair of eyes glaring at me with a nice healthy death stare and sure enough it was her. I pretended not to notice and just kept going about my business. Then i sorta started laughing because i thought it was funny that she was still pissed at me. I think my reaction was pretty justified at the time and i had every right to be upset and if anyone should be mad its me. She wanted this not me.

 

So i started thinking about it and really debated just sending her a text saying something like hey im not pissed anymore but if you wanna keep being pissed at me go right ahead but if you ever wanna be friendly and say hello im not pissed anymore. i knew i would be the one who would extend the olive branch first if ever. Should i do this or should i just let her be a B word and ruin forever what was a good relationship for a long time? Im really torn on what is the right answer

take the advice of an old guy......unless you reallllly want to get back with her...and you feel you are destined to be with eachother-----just forget it....dont leave the messages etc. move on.

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