Not sure if you are purposely playing dumb or just like to state the obvious.
Obviously, no one on here knows McDermott from a personal life perspective.
As a public figure, he sounds more and more like the ultimate hypocrite. Preaches accountability but doesn't want any, advocates a somewhat blurry concept he calls "the process", which I guess would imply continuous improvement, yet constantly shows he refuses, can't, or is too stubborn to learn from his own mistakes.
I guess that's what people are growing more frustrated with, rather than what he does behind closed doors in his private life.