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Anyone ever go through a divorce with a child?
The Poojer replied to Royale with Cheese's topic in Off the Wall Archives
it's not hard, in fact it's kind of easy....it sucks a lot of times, but it's still easy to be a regular guy :-) -
Anyone ever go through a divorce with a child?
The Poojer replied to Royale with Cheese's topic in Off the Wall Archives
well well well....someone left out a bit of detail in the original story...... -
Anyone ever go through a divorce with a child?
The Poojer replied to Royale with Cheese's topic in Off the Wall Archives
Perhaps he has aspirations of being the subject of one of your 'Would Ya" threads -
Anyone ever go through a divorce with a child?
The Poojer replied to Royale with Cheese's topic in Off the Wall Archives
Yeah, don't jump back into the dating scene too quickly....learn to live alone and focus on you and your kid. Once you are happy and able to be on your own, then you can try and start to ruin someone else's life :-) -
Anyone ever go through a divorce with a child?
The Poojer replied to Royale with Cheese's topic in Off the Wall Archives
we fell out of "romantic" love, i still very much love her as a person, as she gave me 3 awesome kids -
Anyone ever go through a divorce with a child?
The Poojer replied to Royale with Cheese's topic in Off the Wall Archives
I moved out and into a friends house for a couple/few weeks, then found an apartment and lived there for a couple months, then we decided to co-habitate to kind of help each other out financially, we led our own lives, sometimes we ate as all together but not often and we made sure to let the kids know that it was nothing more than that and that we were not getting back together, we both dated. She eventually met someone and moved out, we were renting so i stayed on in the house, with the kids, it worked out perfectly for me. Granted my case is probably as close to perfect as you can get, but it's all about being honest and open....it's gonna really suck for a couple months, then slowly things will start to look better and you'll look back and be amazed at how far you've come in a very short time. Also in my case, beer helped in the short-term, as an escape, but I don't recommend going down that slippery slope -
Anyone ever go through a divorce with a child?
The Poojer replied to Royale with Cheese's topic in Off the Wall Archives
my kids were 16, 15 and 9 when my ex and i split, very amicably, but very much out of love. We made it a point to put the kids first and we stuck to it. Granted we didn't have a pot to piss in, so there really was nothing of value to negotiate, but even if there was, i probably would have acquiesced and let her have anything of substance....it's just stuff and money, you can always get more, eventually. We couldn't have had a better experience of a divorce, no lawyers no fighting, downloaded some forms from the internet, found a notary, we both signed, 30 days later we got a letter of congratulations from the Commonwealth of Virginia. All throughout and even still, the kids came first. They saw the strain in our marriage, we wanted to put all of that behind us. I think they were the winners in it all because we are all happier on the other side. Best of luck and if you need a shoulder or an ear, reach out. -
Rookie Dolphin trying to steal Fitz’s magic
The Poojer replied to YoloinOhio's topic in The Stadium Wall Archives
Mingia! -
I thought there was too much soap opera type things going on...the sideways look Gus gave the Doctor, the way they had Kai interact...too much blatant visual cues, but i get it, it's a short segment and they have to hammer it home in quick fashion, i just expect way more from this show. I suppose that is a compliment and if that is my only complaint then i think they are doing their jobs very well. I am intrigued at what Kim has up her sleeve. Huell absolutely cracked me up last night
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Just got back from seeing Ozzy Osbourne in Camden NJ
The Poojer replied to The Poojer's topic in Off the Wall Archives
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Isn't Hector in a private hospital(not even sure he's in a hospital), or is it that they brought in private doctors to take care of him
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I literally gasped out loud when the bat stopped on the one punk's face in the pinata scene. These past 2 episodes have been great. I love the speculation here that Saul is talking to Howard or Kim in that opening scene in episode 5. That thought NEVER crossed my mind.
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Shopkeep Collapses; Customers Don't Help; Loot Store
The Poojer replied to Fadingpain's topic in Off the Wall Archives
they are good boys and were just getting their lives turned around -
Just got back from seeing Ozzy Osbourne in Camden NJ
The Poojer replied to The Poojer's topic in Off the Wall Archives
Here is a bit of Crazy Train from last night -
Just got back from seeing Ozzy Osbourne in Camden NJ
The Poojer replied to The Poojer's topic in Off the Wall Archives
I didn't realize it was an early Sabbath song, I always thought it was solo Ozzy. They actually played a recorded version of it done by a female singer as we exited. Zakk Wylde was definitely a monster up there, and in the audience for a 20 minute solo. -
Went with my middle son and wasn't really excited about going. Not really a big fan of the music. Sure he's iconic but it's just not my taste. What an incredibly enjoyable show it turned out to be. Ozzy was energetic, his voice sounded pretty darned good. His band was really top notch (Rick Wakeman's kid on keyboards. Played for 90 minutes and aside from the "Changes" song he played everything I knew. I'm really glad I went and I'm upset I went in with such a prejudiced attitude. Also worth noting, hit Donkeys Place in Camden for what might be the best cheese steak in the area that made cheese steaks famous.
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Ed Norton, Major Roger Healy, George Costanza...3 of the greatest "sidekicks" in television history imho.
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Saw Richard Thompson in concert today
The Poojer replied to The Poojer's topic in Off the Wall Archives
Oh heck yeah. Loved Fairport Convention. That being said, 40 years later he was so good to see him. He's an incredible guitar player and he has a very good stage presence. -
NCAA punishes Kentucky soccer team
The Poojer replied to PromoTheRobot's topic in Off the Wall Archives
NCAA is mad they couldn't get a piece of the Ohio State mess Had to go check Jay Bilas' twitter feed to see if he chimed in, he did, I love when he chimes in against the NCAA and their nonsense https://twitter.com/JayBilas/status/1038137697909518338