IMO the "hate" question was dumb but her answer was equally bad. Going on a long rant about how her deep rooted Catholicism could never ever allow he to hate while she had the dagger eyes and "don't mess with me or you'll feel the wrath" comments was bad enough on its own.
The reporter could've easily followed up with "How has Catholicism taken such deep root in you about the word hate but not about abortion? Can you explain this selective use of the tenants of your religion?".
I doubt there is any person in history that has followed a specific religion's path at every moment of their life. But for Pelosi to claim this high ground is absurd.
She should've just said "of course I don't hate him, I don't hate anyone" and walked off. Personally I don't think she feels real hate toward Trump, although she might for the reporter. She looks down on Trump and wants to teach him and anyone who would vote for him or anyone like him a lesson about who is really in charge.