BillsFanNC Posted August 28, 2012 Share Posted August 28, 2012 (edited) Thanks for the kinds words guys. Im lucky to have the support system I got. Brother, sister and mom and dad all called me within about 20 mins to see how i was doing and said something similar. Ill be ok. Well try to stay friends but I did alot for her, I have no regrets other than I wish she was willing to stick it out like I was willing to. Gonna go bang someone tomorrow if i can That's the spirit! Nothing will get you moving past all of this quicker than bringing the white rain of a thousand loads to vaginas near and far. And in the spirit of Steel Panther...17 Girls in a Row (NSFW) http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yvhbj0jVMFs Edited August 28, 2012 by BillsFanNC Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
KD in CA Posted August 28, 2012 Share Posted August 28, 2012 Thanks for the kinds words guys. Im lucky to have the support system I got. Brother, sister and mom and dad all called me within about 20 mins to see how i was doing and said something similar. Ill be ok. Well try to stay friends but I did alot for her, I have no regrets other than I wish she was willing to stick it out like I was willing to. Gonna go bang someone tomorrow if i can Everyone says it during the break up but I don't recommend actually trying to 'stay friends' with a girl who ended it. All that does is prolong your recovery period. Just like with smoking, cold turkey is the only way to quit. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mead107 Posted August 28, 2012 Share Posted August 28, 2012 Everyone says it during the break up but I don't recommend actually trying to 'stay friends' with a girl who ended it. All that does is prolong your recovery period. Just like with smoking, cold turkey is the only way to quit. You saying he should quit dating girls? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DC Tom Posted August 28, 2012 Share Posted August 28, 2012 Thanks for the kinds words guys. Im lucky to have the support system I got. Brother, sister and mom and dad all called me within about 20 mins to see how i was doing and said something similar. Ill be ok. Well try to stay friends but I did alot for her, I have no regrets other than I wish she was willing to stick it out like I was willing to. Gonna go bang someone tomorrow if i can Hey, no matter how difficult it gets, just always remember: You're not MDP. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SageAgainstTheMachine Posted August 28, 2012 Share Posted August 28, 2012 Everyone says it during the break up but I don't recommend actually trying to 'stay friends' with a girl who ended it. All that does is prolong your recovery period. Just like with smoking, cold turkey is the only way to quit. This is true. Normal platonic friendships are rarely derived from a scenario with intense feelings. "Staying friends" is a good deal for divorced parents with kids. Otherwise, no. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Gordio Posted August 28, 2012 Share Posted August 28, 2012 Thanks for the kinds words guys. Im lucky to have the support system I got. Brother, sister and mom and dad all called me within about 20 mins to see how i was doing and said something similar. Ill be ok. Well try to stay friends but I did alot for her, I have no regrets other than I wish she was willing to stick it out like I was willing to. Gonna go bang someone tomorrow if i can Kind of been following this thread. Sorry it did not work out. Listen man, I am a little older then you so there is a lesson to be learned here. When a girl inititiates the breakup they usually have another guy already in the fold to replace you. I have 3 friends that their wives all initiated the divorce proceedings & all 3 rtimes it came out at a later date that they were seeing someone else. For whatever reason girls do not want to be alone & will very rarely look for a breakup if they do not have another option. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SageAgainstTheMachine Posted August 28, 2012 Share Posted August 28, 2012 It's like that quote: Women are like monkeys; they won't let go of one branch until they've got hold of the next. Many women seem to judge their own social value on the possession of a man, whereas the social value for men is in sewing wild oats. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Captain Hindsight Posted August 28, 2012 Author Share Posted August 28, 2012 I went above and beyond in this relationship. Im making 120 a week, it would cost me almost 100 dollars to drive there and back and I did it every three weeks. I facetimed her every night, sent her flowers, gifts, letters emails every day. In the end that wasnt enough for her. I have absolutely no regret and dont think I could have done anything more to show her i care and wanted to make this work. She gave up and didnt want it as bad as I did. That part hurts. The thought of someone else hurts. But for the first time in any relationship ive been a part of, I cant say I should have done more. I'm not sure what else I could have done. Its nobodys fault. Just didnt work. In a few weeks, Ill be in Buffalo and prolly wont even call her Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Joe Miner Posted August 28, 2012 Share Posted August 28, 2012 I went above and beyond in this relationship. Im making 120 a week, it would cost me almost 100 dollars to drive there and back and I did it every three weeks. I facetimed her every night, sent her flowers, gifts, letters emails every day. In the end that wasnt enough for her. I have absolutely no regret and dont think I could have done anything more to show her i care and wanted to make this work. She gave up and didnt want it as bad as I did. That part hurts. The thought of someone else hurts. But for the first time in any relationship ive been a part of, I cant say I should have done more. I'm not sure what else I could have done. Its nobodys fault. Just didnt work. In a few weeks, Ill be in Buffalo and prolly wont even call her As was mentioned, go cold turkey. You don't want to find out who she's with now. It'll just piss you off, and make it harder to move on. Oh, and next time, don't do all that extra stuff like flowers/gifts/etc..., unless that's just how you are. If you're doing it to impress her, or keep her around, just don't. If she needs that stuff to be interested in the relationship, all it's doing is buying you a little time till something comes along that's more interesting than flowers. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
KD in CA Posted August 28, 2012 Share Posted August 28, 2012 I facetimed her every night, sent her flowers, gifts, letters emails every day. In the end that wasnt enough for her. Yikes. It wasn't 'not enough' for her, it was too much. Waaay too much. Dude, you can't smother women, no matter what the stupid ass Hollywood movies tell you. They will run away every time (unless they are crazy needy and then you'll need to run away). I'm sure Captain Hindsight won't make that mistake next time. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DC Tom Posted August 28, 2012 Share Posted August 28, 2012 I went above and beyond in this relationship. Im making 120 a week, it would cost me almost 100 dollars to drive there and back and I did it every three weeks. I facetimed her every night, sent her flowers, gifts, letters emails every day. In the end that wasnt enough for her. I have absolutely no regret and dont think I could have done anything more to show her i care and wanted to make this work. She gave up and didnt want it as bad as I did. That part hurts. The thought of someone else hurts. But for the first time in any relationship ive been a part of, I cant say I should have done more. I'm not sure what else I could have done. I think I make that in an hour now. This is the first time in a long time I'm appreciating being older. Its nobodys fault. Just didnt work. In a few weeks, Ill be in Buffalo and prolly wont even call her Healthy attitude. Seriously. You don't want to find out who she's with now. It'll just piss you off, and make it harder to move on. Unless it's a chick... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SageAgainstTheMachine Posted August 28, 2012 Share Posted August 28, 2012 You don't want to find out who she's with now. It'll just piss you off, and make it harder to move on. Unless it's a chick... No, that'll still make it harder. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kegtapr Posted August 28, 2012 Share Posted August 28, 2012 Yikes. It wasn't 'not enough' for her, it was too much. Waaay too much. Dude, you can't smother women, no matter what the stupid ass Hollywood movies tell you. They will run away every time (unless they are crazy needy and then you'll need to run away). I'm sure Captain Hindsight won't make that mistake next time. Yup, you over compensated captain and she saw you as needy. Live and learn. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Captain Hindsight Posted August 28, 2012 Author Share Posted August 28, 2012 Man, you need a new job!! Isn't min wage for a full-time week like $300? Intern... Welcome to the life of college graduates. No one hires you anymore, they give you an internship Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
KD in CA Posted August 28, 2012 Share Posted August 28, 2012 Intern... Welcome to the life of college graduates. No one hires you anymore, they give you an internship Doing what? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mead107 Posted August 28, 2012 Share Posted August 28, 2012 Intern... Welcome to the life of college graduates. No one hires you anymore, they give you an internship What is your degree in? Are you working in Buffalo? What are the chances you get a full time job at this outfit. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Optometric Insight Posted August 28, 2012 Share Posted August 28, 2012 Go out and bag some hoes, or just hang out with some of your friends and cheer on the Bills. It's important to live your life how YOU want, and not worry about what SHE will think. Oh yeah, the Bills will certainly cheer him up... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Captain Hindsight Posted August 29, 2012 Author Share Posted August 29, 2012 (edited) What is your degree in? Are you working in Buffalo? What are the chances you get a full time job at this outfit. I have a degree in Environmental Policy and a Degree in Psychology. Im planning on going back to grad school. Im currently interning for NYS DEC as an educator/ researcher about marshes and eels specifically. Ive been offered to come back, at the same salary of 10 grand... but honestly this isnt what I want to be doing so I doubt Ill take it Im working near poughkeepsie Edited August 29, 2012 by Captain Hindsight Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SageAgainstTheMachine Posted August 29, 2012 Share Posted August 29, 2012 I have a degree in Environmental Policy and a Degree in Psychology. Im planning on going back to grad school. Im currently interning for NYS DEC as an educator/ researcher about marshes and eels specifically. Ive been offered to come back, at the same salary of 10 grand... but honestly this isnt what I want to be doing so I doubt Ill take it Im working near poughkeepsie Well there's your problem. Everybody knows there's no money in the eel business. You get into eels because you LOVE EELS. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Captain Hindsight Posted August 29, 2012 Author Share Posted August 29, 2012 Well there's your problem. Everybody knows there's no money in the eel business. You get into eels because you LOVE EELS. O contraire. These eels were going for 2000 bucks a pound earlier this year. if it werent for that whole ethic thing id be on easy street Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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