They're not ok with it at all. Personally I'd love Harbaugh as coach, even though opinion on him in the pros is divided. But it just isn't happening so it's pointless. You might as well debate whether we should bring in Bill Belichick to be defensive coordinator, or whether we should trade Gabe for Justin Jefferson. This franchise went through 17 years of zero playoffs, they're not going to sack the guy who brought stability and has guided them to the playoffs all but 1 year of his tenure.
Again, I think that's the wrong way for them to go and I'd love to take a shot on someone like Johnson in Detroit but it's not happening so we're better off thinking about how they can make the team better so the guy has a better chance to take us further next year