Different strokes for different folks.
Also, long ago, in a galaxy far, far away, I was a distance runner for a college program (DIII) that took 1st, 2nd, 2nd, and 1st in the nation, the four years I ran for them (and, yes: I raced in each National meet... Not a benchwarmer or flag-waiver).
Anyhow, my coach once handed down a bit of colloquial wisdom, that applies to JA17. He told me:
"There are two types of women: The ones that make you run faster, and the ones who don't... Make sure you're with the right type!"
Let's just hope Steinfeld is the "right" type.