My 93 year -old mom is with me. I also get help from my broiher and sister and my brother's friend comes over every day to clean and dress her, In fact she is here right now. We found a visiting doctor service (actually its PAs) instead of the extensive undertaking of getting her to the Dr's office. They came for the first time yesterday. Glad my mom only needs checkups. My B-I-L on the other hand, has his mother and brother in nursing homes and had to sell off her house because she didn't put it in trust years ago.
I am doing everything possible to make sure she does mynot get the COV-19. Will probably be wearing a mask through the summer.
Last Christmas (2018) I got a bad bug and gave it to her The 29yh we had to put her in the hospital. She had caught pneumonia, Was there 3 days and the in a nursing home for 3 weeks. We thought that was the end. She pulled through. That nursing home now has has 42 COVID cases and a dozen deaths.