bills_fan Posted July 6, 2009 Share Posted July 6, 2009 Some goofy friggin advice in this thread and some that is decent. I am not, and never have been, the jealous type. My attitude has always been, if she can do better...go for it. That means I can do better as well. Its all about your own self-confidence. Feel good about yourself, you are banging a real hot chick (according to you, a pic would verify). She seems to want/need the attention of others...so what. Don't make an issue out of it, she may be just trying to get a rise out out of you/push your buttons/ or test your self-confidence. I have no idea since I don't know the girl. I know that women find people who are confident in themselves (not !@#$-type cocky, but confident) to be sexy. I also would not want to be best buddies with her guy friends from work/guys hitting on her in the bar etc. Hot girls don't get hit on randomly as much as you think, their looks intimidate most guys. Thats why many hot chicks end up with uglier guys, the ugly guy showed enough confidence to hit on them (either that or a fat wallet). Man up & be confident. Ignore the bull and you will be better off. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Peevo Posted July 6, 2009 Share Posted July 6, 2009 Not if you do a good job of keeping things interesting. Very good advice! Don't let looks overpower you, sometimes that's all they have. Sometimes they have both, but that should only help you gain your focus more! Any Mystery fans here? When I first saw the Pickup Artist, I was convinced none of that crap could possibly work. But man, whatever he tells those losers really, honestly, actually works. It blows my mind. The one-line openers and how to approach "sets." It sounds so incredibly lame, but I've even borrowed from the "method." Its all a game, and Mystery realizes that. To your questions, I'd say, do your best to roll with it. Every guy is gonna wanna hit on some girl. You, at one point, were that guy. It happens, we find girls attractive. If you get pissed off it only hurts your cause. One of my best friends literally dragged his girlfriend out of the bar and went home cause he "couldn't take deuchebag guys hitting on my girlfriend." Well, deal with it. Also, I agree with above posts. What do you have in common? What's her interests, career goals, etcetera. Do what makes you guys happy away from the club scene. You can even do the bar thing without Gotti-collar-popped-roid rage-over tan d-bags around. Go see a good band at Mohawk Place. Go to Allentown for a drink and a good band or two. The Wine Thief on Elmwood is classy and chill, no pressure. The Botanical Gardens is a great date spot. Does she like chocolate? Take her to Butterwood. There's a laundry list of stuff to do outside of lame Chippewa bars. Seriously. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Stl Bills Posted July 6, 2009 Share Posted July 6, 2009 When I first saw the Pickup Artist, I was convinced none of that crap could possibly work. But man, whatever he tells those losers really, honestly, actually works. It blows my mind. The one-line openers and how to approach "sets." It sounds so incredibly lame, but I've even borrowed from the "method." Its all a game, and Mystery realizes that. To your questions, I'd say, do your best to roll with it. Every guy is gonna wanna hit on some girl. You, at one point, were that guy. It happens, we find girls attractive. If you get pissed off it only hurts your cause. One of my best friends literally dragged his girlfriend out of the bar and went home cause he "couldn't take deuchebag guys hitting on my girlfriend." Well, deal with it. Also, I agree with above posts. What do you have in common? What's her interests, career goals, etcetera. Do what makes you guys happy away from the club scene. You can even do the bar thing without Gotti-collar-popped-roid rage-over tan d-bags around. Go see a good band at Mohawk Place. Go to Allentown for a drink and a good band or two. The Wine Thief on Elmwood is classy and chill, no pressure. The Botanical Gardens is a great date spot. Does she like chocolate? Take her to Butterwood. There's a laundry list of stuff to do outside of lame Chippewa bars. Seriously. Don't take girl advice from a dude that gets his from some douche on MTV named Mystery. Seriously. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BLZFAN4LIFE Posted July 6, 2009 Share Posted July 6, 2009 Don't take girl advice from a dude that gets his from some douche on MTV named Mystery. Seriously. Who is Mystery? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
/dev/null Posted July 6, 2009 Share Posted July 6, 2009 Or Sean Connery So Trebek, tell me about The PenIs Mightier. Will it really mighty my penis? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Cugalabanza Posted July 6, 2009 Share Posted July 6, 2009 Who is Mystery? Exactly! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Stl Bills Posted July 6, 2009 Share Posted July 6, 2009 Who is Mystery? Personally, I think if you need advice on how pick up on chicks from some dude who has to where a giant douchey hat to get attention you have no shot.......unless you win the lottery. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BLZFAN4LIFE Posted July 6, 2009 Share Posted July 6, 2009 Personally, I think if you need advice on how pick up on chicks from some dude who has to where a giant douchey hat to get attention you have no shot.......unless you win the lottery. Thanks. The last time I watched MTV, The Real World San Francisco was still on. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
GoodBye Posted July 6, 2009 Share Posted July 6, 2009 You walked RIGHT into that, Lana. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Beerball Posted July 6, 2009 Share Posted July 6, 2009 Say, what's a nice girl like you doing in a place like this? Care to come look at my etchings? Wow, is it hot in here or what? really, that's all i got Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
gmac17 Posted July 6, 2009 Share Posted July 6, 2009 You must read this link and go to the second page. I was crying I was laughing so hard. thanks for making me visit that link. classic. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BLZFAN4LIFE Posted July 6, 2009 Share Posted July 6, 2009 Say, what's a nice girl like you doing in a place like this? Care to come look at my etchings? Wow, is it hot in here or what? really, that's all i got You blew it man, you ALWAYS open with "what's your sign, baby", chicks dig it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
GoodBye Posted July 6, 2009 Share Posted July 6, 2009 Say, what's a nice girl like you doing in a place like this? Care to come look at my etchings? Wow, is it hot in here or what? really, that's all i got Seriously, I don't even get the cheesy pick up lines. More like a cold shoulder. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SDS Posted July 6, 2009 Share Posted July 6, 2009 Seriously, I don't even get the cheesy pick up lines. More like a cold shoulder. If I told you - you had a beautiful body would you hold it against me? that's the cheesiest I got. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
HopsGuy Posted July 6, 2009 Share Posted July 6, 2009 Say, what's a nice girl like you doing in a place like this? Care to come look at my etchings? Wow, is it hot in here or what? really, that's all i got That's so 1977. The new closer is, "Wanna come back to my place for some Wii bowling?" Either that, or "Wanna go in halves on a bastard?" Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SDS Posted July 6, 2009 Share Posted July 6, 2009 That's so 1977. The new closer is, "Wanna come back to my place for some Wii bowling?" Either that, or "Wanna go in halves on a bastard?" Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
extrahammer Posted July 6, 2009 Share Posted July 6, 2009 Personally, I think if you need advice on how pick up on chicks from some dude who has to where a giant douchey hat to get attention you have no shot.......unless you win the lottery. Actually, his giant hat is nowhere near as pathetic as all the Affliction/Tapout/Ed Hardy rosary tattoed pasted haired freaks who all think they are legit MMA fighters. If you actually watched Mystery, just even once, he's a big advocate against buying girls drinks. In fact, he oftens "opens a set" by offering the girl to buy HIM a drink. It's on VH1, same network as T.O., not MTV. http://i76.photobucket.com/albums/j12/paulguynj/guido12.jpg http://www.clubplanet.com/news/blogpics/bt_group.jpg Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Beerball Posted July 6, 2009 Share Posted July 6, 2009 Seriously, I don't even get the cheesy pick up lines. cheesy? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kota Posted July 6, 2009 Share Posted July 6, 2009 Sounds like you are insecure about the relationship and looking for a way out. Anyone who dates a hot girl needs to understand that guys will always try to hit on her or check her out no matter who is on her arm. It's the nature of the game. If you feel your relationship is getting stale or boring it's up to you to spice it up. She is the hot girl and could find a new guy within a day if she really wanted to. IF she has become more flirty with others around you recently I would be worried. It probably means you are not paying enough attention to her. You don't have to do much to keep her interested. Try new things in the bedroom, give her a foot massage, do something you hate but she loves, etc.... The key is to do more without looking like you are trying to do more. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Stl Bills Posted July 6, 2009 Share Posted July 6, 2009 Actually, his giant hat is nowhere near as pathetic as all the Affliction/Tapout/Ed Hardy rosary tattoed pasted haired freaks who all think they are legit MMA fighters. If you actually watched Mystery, just even once, he's a big advocate against buying girls drinks. In fact, he oftens "opens a set" by offering the girl to buy HIM a drink. It's on VH1, same network as T.O., not MTV. http://i76.photobucket.com/albums/j12/paulguynj/guido12.jpg http://www.clubplanet.com/news/blogpics/bt_group.jpg Yeah those guys are ALSO giant douchebags. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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