Hate? No. Annoyed? Yes.
Recently there was a thread here about a genealogy website that gave a lot of info when you put in a persons name. This becomes important later in the story. I'm getting married again, and need to get an official annulment from the church, so I can be remarried in the church. In order to do that, I need the exes current mailing address. Don't know why, I'm guessing so they can send her a copy of it once it's done. So I email her at the last email address I have to get her current address. She gives me her parents address here in NY, but I know she's in Florida now. So using that web site I look up her current address. At the same time I also see both her parents have died since we were divorced. Here comes my annoyance. One, there's no one living at her parents house to get the mail that may be sent to her. Two, she never told me her parents have died. I'm the type that would have at least gotten in contact an let someone know. And yes, I did end up giving the church what was listed as her current address. I really do hope they sent something to her.