KD in CA Posted August 31, 2014 Share Posted August 31, 2014 What to do about the drug den?? Hmmmm....any of your other neighbors volunteer firemen? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Hazed and Amuzed Posted August 31, 2014 Share Posted August 31, 2014 Geez; that's really scary to think that there could be heroin lying around his house. Yeah man, stuff like that really happens. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Johnny Hammersticks Posted August 31, 2014 Author Share Posted August 31, 2014 Geez; that's really scary to think that there could be heroin lying around his house. Interesting point made, but I highly doubt the guy is stashing drugs in my house. It has been nearly 2 months since he has been inside my house, and he is broke. I think he would have been trying to get his stash long before now. He's a broke ass drug addict. Never know tho... If the Mrs. and I find a bundle of powder it will be a wild night! lol What to do about the drug den?? Hmmmm....any of your other neighbors volunteer firemen? We have neighbors on both sides of us that are aware of the drug house. One is a 74 year old woman, and the other is older woman who is a real estate agent. No firefighters or anyone else who might be skilled at accidentally lighting drug dens on fire. Unfortunately... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
The Dean Posted August 31, 2014 Share Posted August 31, 2014 Shut up, Love Corn. I am love corn. Vermont has very open gun laws. Castle doctrine? Honestly next time this zoned out junkie shows up at your door I'd stuff a 12 gauge in his mouth. Yes, Big gun, Small brain. Shoot what you don't understand. Interesting point made, but I highly doubt the guy is stashing drugs in my house. It has been nearly 2 months since he has been inside my house, and he is broke. I think he would have been trying to get his stash long before now. He's a broke ass drug addict. Never know tho... I doubt he's stashing drugs. He could be ditching paraphernalia like works and such. I'm thinking he's desperately hiding from someone in a place he feels is safe. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
KD in CA Posted August 31, 2014 Share Posted August 31, 2014 We have neighbors on both sides of us that are aware of the drug house. One is a 74 year old woman, and the other is older woman who is a real estate agent. No firefighters or anyone else who might be skilled at accidentally lighting drug dens on fire. Unfortunately... Bummer. Make sure you do the online research at the library and not at home. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Beerball Posted August 31, 2014 Share Posted August 31, 2014 I am at a loss here. I am human and I actually have empathy for the kid. Looks like Boyst was jonesing for a chiropractic adjustment; don't worry, you did the right thing. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DC Tom Posted August 31, 2014 Share Posted August 31, 2014 Yes, Big gun, Small brain. Shoot what you don't understand. That's why I always make an attempt to understand my local druggies before I blow 'em away. I doubt he's stashing drugs. He could be ditching paraphernalia like works and such. I'm thinking he's desperately hiding from someone in a place he feels is safe. From a risk management standpoint, though...federal asset forfeiture laws being what they are, even if paraphernalia were found in JH's house, he could have his property seized and auctioned. The probability of risk might be pretty low, but the potential impact is awfully high. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Buffalo Barbarian Posted September 1, 2014 Share Posted September 1, 2014 (edited) So, many of you are familiar of my dealings with shower boy. My across the street neighbor who is a supposed recovering heroin addict. For a time he was constantly coming over to my house asking to use our shower. According to him, his "migraine medicine" has bad side effects, and it helps for him to take a really hot shower. He claims his shower "doesn't get that hot," mine apparently does...here we are... We haven't been visited by shower boy in almost 2 months. I made it clear to him that he had crossed the line and was not welcome here anymore. He has been respectful of my boundaries, and even came over once and apologized to my wife and I...said it would never happen again. Over the past couple months, however, our neighbor situation has deteriorated (if you can imagine). Renters have come and gone, and now I have no idea exactly who is living there. Random people just seem to come and go. They have loud parties, and the police have been there countless times and arrested several people. We, along with our next door neighbor, have both filed reports with the police about our concerns. Well, I haven't seen shower boy in weeks until this morning. It was about 7:00 (my only day of the week to sleep in) and my wife had just woke up with my daughter. About 5 minutes after she woke up, shower boy came knocking at the door asking to use the shower. My wife told him that he was not allowed to use the shower and asked him to leave. When he stayed on the porch begging to come in, my wife came and woke me up. When I got downstairs, I found shower boy standing in my lawn, literally sobbing and drooling...again begging me to use the shower. It was disgusting and sad. I firmly told him to get lost before I needed to call the police, and he said to me "you don't understand man, this could mean life or death!" I was very irritated, and again told him to get the hell off my property. He finally stumbled back across the street. Well, approximately 2 hours later an ambulance pulled up across the street and took shower boy away on a stretcher. I am at a loss here. I am human and I actually have empathy for the kid. I fear for the safety of my family, so I don't allow him to come in my house. We have talked with the "landlord," about what is going on over there, but he doesn't seem concerned and never says that he is doing something about it. The thing is, he is frequently over there partying with them. I think he is a drug addict too. This situation is so messed up, and I really don't know what to do next. Uggh. This used to be a perfect little neighborhood! Our former neighbors across the street were such a nice family. might be time to move. I have a neighbor who is drunk who was asking for rides at 2:00 AM. Being a nice guy I did this 3x but it was clear that he was taking advantage of the situation along with saying really inappropriate about/to my wife and daughter. The last straw was he conned my wife into giving him a ride an hr away because he son was going to "commit suicide" but the whole time he was hitting on her. Needless to say I was furious. I thought I might have to kill him but knew that was wrong so I prayed real hard that God would take care of the situation and he hasn't bothered us since. Interesting. Withdrawal certainly is a possibility, but I also believe the guy might suffer from some mental issues (other than addiction). Doubtful, it's junkies that need an ambulance two hrs later. Edited September 1, 2014 by Buffalo Barbarian Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DC Tom Posted September 1, 2014 Share Posted September 1, 2014 Doubtful, it's junkies that need an ambulance two hrs later. Addiction often goes hand-in-hand with other mental issues. Show me an addict, I'll give you even-money odds they have a mental illness and are self-medicating. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Hazed and Amuzed Posted September 1, 2014 Share Posted September 1, 2014 Doubtful, it's junkies that need an ambulance two hrs later. Completely uninformed statement. Addiction often goes hand-in-hand with other mental issues. Show me an addict, I'll give you even-money odds they have a mental illness and are self-medicating. Unsurprisingly the complete opposite of BBs post- informed. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Johnny Hammersticks Posted September 1, 2014 Author Share Posted September 1, 2014 Still no sightings of shower boy. I've seen his brother stop by a few times, so I assume he is there. The wife and I have a meeting with a city police detective on Tuesday. After speaking with one officer, it is apparent that they are aware of what's happening. I don't want to be a rat, but I feel compelled to share my concerns...especially about the landlord. My wife, I'm sure, will be much more candid. Scary stuff... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BillsFanM.D. Posted September 1, 2014 Share Posted September 1, 2014 Still no sightings of shower boy. I've seen his brother stop by a few times, so I assume he is there. The wife and I have a meeting with a city police detective on Tuesday. After speaking with one officer, it is apparent that they are aware of what's happening. I don't want to be a rat, but I feel compelled to share my concerns...especially about the landlord. My wife, I'm sure, will be much more candid. Scary stuff... I think it's safe to say you have nothing to feel bad about. The guy is seemingly on a self destructive path if drastic changes don't occur for him. If that requires police intervention....so be it. Especially when you feel somewhat threatened by him or his potential actions. You tried to be nice and now you have to be smart. Lastly, how often is an internet message board universally united on a topic? I think everyone in this thread (and the other) has expressed some worry for you (and the shower boy to a degree). Sometimes the worst thing you can do is nothing. I'm glad you called the cops. As you said, they are already in the know. This raises their concern and hopefully keeps everyone more aware. Be safe! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dibs Posted September 1, 2014 Share Posted September 1, 2014 Interesting. Withdrawal certainly is a possibility, but I also believe the guy might suffer from some mental issues (other than addiction). That was my first thought too. As mind altering substances can cause the onset of psychosis(or similar), I think this could be quite likely. I think the OP did the right thing however. Family comes first. Though Johnny H might have been able to offer proper help to Showerboy(beyond that of simply allowing the use of the shower), in my mind he had no choice but to turn the poor soul away. The resposibilty of ensuring of the safety for his family trumps the perceived social responibilities to help one's fellow man. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Buffalo Barbarian Posted September 1, 2014 Share Posted September 1, 2014 Completely uninformed statement. uninformed! You don't jack, I have a junkie nephew so Shut the hell up Addiction often goes hand-in-hand with other mental issues. Show me an addict, I'll give you even-money odds they have a mental illness and are self-medicating. sometimes the case but many times people just get addicted. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Hazed and Amuzed Posted September 2, 2014 Share Posted September 2, 2014 uninformed! You don't jack, I have a junkie nephew so Shut the hell up sometimes the case but many times people just get addicted. I'm a recovered "junkie" that professionally helps other recovered "junkies" and has been doing so for years. So please tell me more about what I don't know and your junkie nephew... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Johnny Hammersticks Posted September 2, 2014 Author Share Posted September 2, 2014 sometimes the case but many times people just get addicted. There is no doubt that drug addiction and mental illness have a strong correlation. I would venture to guess that the relationship, by etiology, is reciprocal. Was it the shower boy or the egg? Or both? Or neither? Surely it was something. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
The Dean Posted September 2, 2014 Share Posted September 2, 2014 (edited) That was my first thought too. As mind altering substances can cause the onset of psychosis(or similar), I think this could be quite likely. I think the OP did the right thing however. Family comes first. Though Johnny H might have been able to offer proper help to Showerboy(beyond that of simply allowing the use of the shower), in my mind he had no choice but to turn the poor soul away. The resposibilty of ensuring of the safety for his family trumps the perceived social responibilities to help one's fellow man. No doubt in my mind, he did the right thing. I probably would have also called the police. Edited September 2, 2014 by The Dean Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Gugny Posted September 2, 2014 Share Posted September 2, 2014 Vermont is the last place I'd expect Rush Limbaugh to be hanging around. But seriously ... you did the right thing on every level. I'm impressed with your level of compassion, as well as your ability to keep it in check and do what was/is best for your family. The young man is obviously in need of help. But you've given him plenty; by being kind to him in the past, by being understanding, by not calling the police, by not assaulting him. Hopefully the ambulance ride will be the first step in his road to recovery. You should feel great about how you handled it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Buffalo Barbarian Posted September 2, 2014 Share Posted September 2, 2014 I'm a recovered "junkie" that professionally helps other recovered "junkies" and has been doing so for years. So please tell me more about what I don't know and your junkie nephew... I apologize but saying I was uniformed pissed me off. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Johnny Hammersticks Posted September 2, 2014 Author Share Posted September 2, 2014 The wife and I went down to meet with a detective at the city police department today. We made it clear that we were giving him information about Shower Boy and crew, not because we were prepared to file charges, but because we were concerned about his safety and the safety of others in the house (and obviously our safety). The officer was very kind and listened to the details of our story, and then informed us that the police were aware that something "fishy" was happening at the house. He also mentioned that other neighbors have called with complaints, and that they were "keeping an eye" on the property. He didn't say it directly, but it sounded as if they were waiting for the right opportunity to bust the house. He asked us if we wanted to proceed with filing a restraining order and we declined. I figure if he comes over again, we may need to go that route. I think we did the right thing. At the very least, if one of the dope-heads gets lippy or aggressive with the wife and I have to cave someone's face in, it will be documented that we made the complaint. I honestly hope the kid does not get arrested and thrown in jail. That is the last thing he needs. If the police do bust the house, I hope it leads to him getting help. Oh, Shower Boy.... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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