Jeeze... It was a family matter, a local matter in which the local police investigated and didn't get bent out of shape about.
Go pick on the mass of youngsters that discover some jingle in their pockets, and then go hound the bars, if it helps...
Youth makes mistakes almost by definition. They err, because neither money or love can give experience. We all gotta get that, alone. Most, by far, figure things out as time wears on.
Neither you or I were there. He apologized (and I don't think for an instant he had to do that in the first place).