None of this happens if you simply treat the police officers with the respect that they are due. Taking the point of view that after I've acted like a complete arse, I should get my panties in a bunch that the officer acts somewhat aggressive towards me in return is just a rhetorical form of chicken and egg. These same principles apply to every social interaction that you have in life. Including those with friends, relatives, teachers, waitresses, sales clerks, customer service reps, etc. Trust me when I say that I'm not coming at this with a Holier Than Thou frame of reference. I am actually terrible at it. My wife, on the other hand, is fantastic at it, and she always gives me 'the look' when she sees or hears me beginning to go off. 😂