Here's where am I with this whole situation. For me, online check ins aren't a problem, I'm always connected and I don't play video games when I'm not, just the way I am. I also very rarely trade in games so the used game restrictions will not affect me (also, the people saying that Xbox will not allow used games are wrong, they have allowed it and are leaving the final decisions up to the publishers, you know, the guys that make the majority money off the game). The Kinect issues people have pointed out are also inaccurate. You can turn off the recording feature when not in use, or, this might be a shocker, you could turn it to face your tv so it can't see you.
So given that the Xbox One will be able to function as my cable box, will offer streaming of NFL games, will have 300,000 dedicated servers for Xbox Live, and Xbox has consistently provided the better online experience between the two platforms, Ill stick with Xbox for this generation for sure. The PS4 is a great system for sure, and I'll most likely get one at some point, but the same 3-4 talking points everyone's stuck to seem overblown to me so far.