I said that at least a dozen posts ago. you disagreed.
As for the rest, I've never once thought my HS/college age sons would find themselves in the situation Araiza at least placed himself in (we'll hear all about that in the civil suit), so it never "hit home".
It's safe to say you wouldn't care, then or, strangely, still-- if he never put on the Bills jersey. He's hardly the first pro athlete accused thusly.