Well, I don't lean on anyone lol never have but to say it never is possible would be something I'd only be making assumptions. Most people who have kids or grandkids want their families to be involved.
I find it kind of sad that most of the people on here live that far away from their families or don't see their family that much.
I visit my family every week and my wife actually is disappointed if she has to work when I go see them. Her family lives in the same neighborhood and we visit atleast once a week together besides when she goes to see them.
3 or 4 weeks is crazy, might as well just see them yearly LOL
Seriously, man I don't think I could forgive myself if something happen to them and I didn't get to see them that often and miss alot of important times in my family lives but I'm young so I guess I think different. (no kids yet, one on the way)