Speaking for only my comment, my intention was not to insult you personally. I was referring more to the types of people that obsess over the actions of consenting adults. Your laundry list of things you find offensive about "gay sex" was extremely insulting for a lot of reasons (Women wearing men's clothes? What year is this?), not the least of which was your assertion that your preference is informed by "common sense" whereas, what, the alternative is that anyone who disagrees has none? But you said, "to each his own" so that must mean that you're an extremely tolerant person. Please.