YoloinOhio Posted November 19, 2017 Author Share Posted November 19, 2017 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
NoSaint Posted November 19, 2017 Share Posted November 19, 2017 24 minutes ago, Kmart128 said: Wow this woman clearly just wants money... I dislike Winston and find him to be a immature child but women today find out a guy has money and makes up some BS story. Why do you find that to clearly be the truth? 1 hour ago, RobH063 said: First, any inappropriate behavior with a woman is wrong on every level but I have a problem with all these reports coming out both with football players, politicians, actors etc. years after the incident allegedly happens. Ladies, here's some advise. If someone, anyone, does something inappropriate to you, report it right after it happens. Don't wait. Waiting a year, two years, 10 years or whatever makes your story less believable and makes everyone wonder if there's an ulterior motive. It says you were fine with it for whatever length of time but now you're not. All this crap about women being too afraid their careers would be ruined or their reputations would be ruined or whatever excuse they give for not coming forward is BS. If it were true, then every single one of these women has left themselves in danger of it happening again by the same person. Over and Over and Over. I've read where some women claimed to be too afraid to come forward. Fearful that they would be hurt physically or worse. By saying nothing, does that fear not exist? Yes it does! Sexual assault on any level is no joke. Report it as soon as you can. Every woman will thank you and so will every decent man! I think most understand sooner is better, but at this point what do you want them to do? Tearing them down or telling them they aren’t doing it right just makes the next less likely to want to come forward. It’s a tricky spot all around, but hopefully this is a little bit of a tipping point and while we likely hear about it more hopefully it happens less Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RobH063 Posted November 19, 2017 Share Posted November 19, 2017 (edited) NoSaint, my intention wasn't to Tear them down. My intention is to empower victims to come forward sooner. Those that are coming forward now about incidents of the past no one can do much with. It is what it is. The reports will be investigated and either it will be found to have truly happened or not but It's always been that way where some women haven't said anything until way after the incident happened. Some never say anything for a variety of reasons and that has to stop. The sooner it's reported, the sooner these predators will be stopped. Women have been victims of this kind of crap way too long. If victims stay silent, the predator keeps on doing it until the silence is broken. Edited November 19, 2017 by RobH063 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
#34fan Posted November 19, 2017 Share Posted November 19, 2017 Guy is weird... -Not in a constructive way either... I wouldn't trust him around the women-folk in my family. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Foreigner Posted November 19, 2017 Share Posted November 19, 2017 It was my understanding from what I read that it was reported. What did you expect, Darby supposedly Winston's buddy at Florida State, to say he did it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Wayne Arnold Posted November 19, 2017 Share Posted November 19, 2017 4 hours ago, RobH063 said: Ladies, here's some advise. If someone, anyone, does something inappropriate to you, report it right after it happens. Don't wait. Waiting a year, two years, 10 years or whatever makes your story less believable and makes everyone wonder if there's an ulterior motive. It says you were fine with it for whatever length of time but now you're not. All this crap about women being too afraid their careers would be ruined or their reputations would be ruined or whatever excuse they give for not coming forward is BS. If it were true, then every single one of these women has left themselves in danger of it happening again by the same person. Over and Over and Over. I've read where some women claimed to be too afraid to come forward. Fearful that they would be hurt physically or worse. By saying nothing, does that fear not exist? This is !@#$ing idiotic. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RobH063 Posted November 19, 2017 Share Posted November 19, 2017 25 minutes ago, Wayne Arnold said: This is !@#$ing idiotic. Really? I've seen maybe 100 interviews over the years where women have claimed that's why they didn't come forward earlier. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Wayne Arnold Posted November 19, 2017 Share Posted November 19, 2017 3 minutes ago, RobH063 said: Really? I've seen maybe 100 interviews over the years where women have claimed that's why they didn't come forward earlier. Maybe because they are legitimate reasons. Ever think of that? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Foreigner Posted November 19, 2017 Share Posted November 19, 2017 Victim shaming and boys will be boys attitude is really idiotic. If some males in the home have not learned what is right and what is wrong and go about shooting people, they haven't learned about treating females. Go to almost any male prison in this country, and see what happens there, and how guys lives get ruined, and don't report sexual abuse, transfer it to females who are afraid to report it. The only reason all this stuff has come out the past weeks is because it was reported against a important and powerful man and now women believe that they may be believed. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RaoulDuke79 Posted November 19, 2017 Share Posted November 19, 2017 Fitz>Jameis Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Albwan Posted November 19, 2017 Share Posted November 19, 2017 On 11/17/2017 at 2:56 PM, JinxedBill1 said: Total Trump move. more than likely dems telling yahoo via a blogger on huffpost it was a trump move and all the sheeple believe it Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JinxedBill1 Posted November 19, 2017 Share Posted November 19, 2017 40 minutes ago, Albwan said: more than likely dems telling yahoo via a blogger on huffpost it was a trump move and all the sheeple believe it I meant that Trump quote where he grabs woman you know where. As a joke. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JaCrispy Posted November 19, 2017 Share Posted November 19, 2017 But I thought he was into chicks... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RobH063 Posted November 19, 2017 Share Posted November 19, 2017 3 hours ago, Wayne Arnold said: Maybe because they are legitimate reasons. Ever think of that? Yep and some of them do have very legitimate reasons and some don't. You missed my point completely. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
NoSaint Posted November 19, 2017 Share Posted November 19, 2017 Just now, RobH063 said: Yep and some of them do have very legitimate reasons and some don't. You missed my point completely. Giving the benefit of the doubt — youvdelivered it very poorly. Not assuming the best, you are probably a fine enough guy but you probably make the women in your life uncomfortable more often than you or they care to realize/admit. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RobH063 Posted November 19, 2017 Share Posted November 19, 2017 3 minutes ago, NoSaint said: Giving the benefit of the doubt — youvdelivered it very poorly. Not assuming the best, you are probably a fine enough guy but you probably make the women in your life uncomfortable more often than you or they care to realize/admit. Actually I am a very nice guy and I don't say that to try and toot my own horn. I just am and have been the "Go To" guy by many women both in my family and outside of my family my entire adult life. I'm a big boy and can take whatever mud gets thrown at me but as for your comment that I make the women in my life uncomfortable...That is probably the nastiest most disgusting thing a person could say to another when they have never met a person that I have ever heard. If my comments were taken the wrong way because I didn't word things more clearly to the point I was making, fine. But what makes you think you or anyone has the right to verbally attack another person? Are you that full of yourself that you think you have all the right in the world to do and say whatever you want? You'll go far in life with that outlook and demeanor. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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