Well said Bill - I've definitely had this same thought over our past decade losing streak.
The people that talk about how awful the Bills are, how much it sucks to be a Bills fan and that make threats to disown the team must have never been to a game or met the right people. Despite all the heartache I could NEVER disown the Bills after all the fun I've had and the great people I've met through my fandom.
I've been to countless Bills losses and I almost always have fun at them (almost). There's just something great about the camaraderie of Bills fans, it's a real reflection of the area. It's true even out of town, I always rock Bills gear when I'm away from VT and sure I catch guff sometimes, but I also get a heck of a lot of high-fives!
Like you said, somehow, someday...