Did you really say, "It's grinding"? Like, what's the big deal? Holy crap, if you think that's ok, I'd hate to see your interactions with women.
And btw, people of both sexes dress in a way to attract someone. That doesn't mean they are trying to, or want to, attract everyone. It doesn't give you or anyone else permission to sexually assault them. Same if they are "leading you on." It's not a free pass to get your rocks off.