Losing a loved on suddenly is tough enough, but having to give consent to have some body parts removed is even tougher. I went through that with my father a couple years ago. When he passed suddenly, they asked my mother if she would be willing to donate anything and they told her what they needed. She was understandably an emotional wreck at the time and asked me what I thought. I told her that without a doubt in my mind dad would have wanted to help out those folks if he could. I know it helps my mom, as well as myslef, to know that my dad is still helping people to this day in some form or another.