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WotAGuy

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  1. No advice to offer, but some experience. For me, relationships with married women in distant cities was complicated and frustrating, after the initial rush wore off. It's morally shaky ground, regardless of the status of their marriage. I found it to be a slippery slope that led to a breakdown in my moral character. In the most serious case, I have a lot of guilt over both our marriages breaking up and not being able to make it work once we were free to be in a relationship. The distance made it difficult, and neither of us were in a position to pull up stakes. I sought out of town relationships with married women several times over the years - it never worked out and was always messy - emotionally or otherwise. I had to look at myself and figure out why I was repeatedly pursuing married/unavailable women in other states, and basing my attraction to them on characteristics that were a bad basis for a successful relationship. It took some intensive work to realize I wasn't being honest, and was avoiding intimacy by focusing on superficial aspects that didn't ultimately satisfy me. Selecting women far from my town kept me from getting too involved in many ways. I was selecting women that could be nothing more than a fling and trying to make it into a complete relationship. I have since found a really great woman, who lives in my town, is emotionally and otherwise available, and is compatible across a wide range of interests, faith, child-raising beliefs and moral character. She may not be as hot or as young as some of my other partners, but the relationship is the best I've ever experienced. Once I got healthier, I found a healthier woman. In fact, we got engaged over Christmas. This will be the second marriage for both of us and we both have adult children. If any of my experience is of any help to you, I'm glad I shared it!
  2. 6. Learn effective use of "obviously" 7. Sign up for TSW with thinly veiled screen name
  3. Mojo44 said it's a certainty the next coach will be worse than Marrone, and less wildly successful. Not saint material at all.
  4. Did your friend's friend mention whether there were any pics of Kim on the computer?
  5. Maybe not - but I bet he stayed at a Holiday Inn last night!
  6. To me, it's a sign of the ultimate in intelligence, self of steam and manliness that the coach chose to be a member of this message board - characteristics I happen to share.
  7. I find it fascinating how alcohol can make any cockamamie idea sound brilliant!
  8. I still think we need to get the server out in space more.
  9. Couldn't be his epic record of head coaching success.....
  10. Damn - just bought a Marrone jersey too.
  11. Must be Orton retiring put him over the edge......
  12. http://mmqb.si.com/2014/12/30/buffalo-bills-2014-nfl/
  13. Wait....it's meaningful that Marrone gets them to play for him in this meaningless game, when he couldn't get them to play for him in the most meaningful game in 10 years last week?
  14. Here's a dilemma: would you rather be a poster that starts threads like this one, OR, be a poster that replies to threads like this one?
  15. "your posts ceases to amazing me!" Likewise! http://forums.twobillsdrive.com/topic/174540-rumor-polian-could-return-as-soon-as-monday/page__st__100#entry3391180
  16. "One could easily say that the dominate defense greatly helped the special teams all this year." It's one thing to mix verbs for adjectives, but that football statement is even more egregious! http://forums.twobillsdrive.com/topic/174542-report-no-football-ops-changes-expected-with-bills/page__st__20
  17. I have seen military personnel wearing dark blue cammo fatigues and thought it weird. Are there blue jungles out there?
  18. One man army! Johnny Seven OMA - could kill a guy 7 different ways! http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Johnny_Seven_OMA
  19. In case you missed it - saw this live while at breakfast this morning. Happened during a live remote from Detroit regarding the Bills' game: http://thebiglead.com/2014/11/23/bob-holtzman-kept-his-cool-during-nsfw-videobomb-on-sportscenter/
  20. That is adorable! Congrats on a beautiful Godson. Since he's already a Bills fan, start teaching him now that swearing is a sin.
  21. I think the NFL should dedicate December as Lake Effect Awareness Month, and allow teams to wear white accessories and white ribbons and trot out displaced people whose homes have collapsed. "NO MORE. NO MORE 'WE DIDN'T HAVE OUR PLOWS READY'. NO MORE 'THE FORECAST DIDN'T PREDICT THIS'. NO MORE. NO MORE"
  22. Nope US is on top, which is where I prefer to be as well.
  23. The Bills did that with Billy Joe Hobert but only with a blank notebook. I wonder if Orton or EJ has EVER told the coaches the game plan "looks great" ??
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