The Poojer

my dad was the same way...37 years at NiMo, they offered him a sweet retirement package(along with his pension) when he was 56...he took it and has been living large since.

what does it say on my resume or actual time spent?

i can see why they never made it into the movies

hahahaha.....i wish...it was always just stupidity on my part...

such a simple concept, but i know it took me a real long time before i could convince myself of that...that was one of the contributing factors in my failed marriage. Sure I made mistakes, but it seemed I was never able to not have them thrown back in my face every step...that doesn't do much to help you in looking past 'transgressions' and you start to question yourself...since being divorced I have been able to put all of that in my rear view mirror and I can focus on today and tomorrow and use yesterday to guide me.... and for the record my 'transgressions' were stupid decisions no where on the level of this story...mostly money and how it was handled...but transgressions nonetheless

using a crapper stall to pee when all the urinals are available!!!

ESPECIALLY with the glasses , sadly she's another one that lost a battle with cancer, i believe. I had a neighbor across the street who claimed some distant relationship to Kristy McNichol..as a 10-13 year old i had wild fantasies of her and i getting together that way....we actually did...many nights....in my mind....

No...I was already droppin' dueces...I observed all of this from the comfort of "The Ferguson"

hands off Kristy...she's mine!!!

funny you mention these 2...being in Victory's backyard, I have been consuming an awful lot of Swing, i try to not have the same beer in one sitting, these 2 and a small handful of others are exceptions. The All Day I tried for the first time while standing in line for a Pliny the Younger tasting, i REALLY enjoy that one.

ouch...that kind of complicates things even more...just know that you aren't going to resolve this today, tomorrow, next week or next month...clear your head. Like others have said...get things straight in your head, perhaps 2 sets of counseling are in order. You and your present woman. You and the pregnant woman. Y'all need someone with no emotional ties to listen and facilitate things. See if that is an option...going to both of them, individually, and proposing that may open up a ton of avenues of communication to all involved.

so does this other woman want to carry on a relationship with you? does she simply want to raise the baby, with you in the baby's life but not a romantic relationship with you?

i can't be 100% serious on this board...i always have to add my own little light hearted twist somehow...

just some ramblings...i'll probably come up with other nuggets as time goes on, but first and foremost DO WHAT'S BEST FOR THE UNBORN CHILD! if that someone is committed to their partner of 8 years, try like hell to make amends...there is a good chance it won't work out, but there is a small chance and it seems like that person is worth putting forth that effort. talk to the pregnant person(i assume its a chick), and find out her intentions...does she want to be with you? is she willing to co-parent? sounds like she wants the baby and I would never suggest abortion(personally not an option for me). through all this, make it as good as it can possibly be for this soon to be new born, they didn't choose to come into the world this way, but make it work for him/her, give him/her every possible option to grow up a happy person with tons of potential, no easy feat. keep your head and wits about yourself...in the end this isn't a horrible thing...sure you may lose a lover, we all do. Sure there will be new responsibilities, personal, civil and financial, but we all deal with them, if the worst thing you will be facing is working harder to bring a productive child into the world, you are in pretty good shape. DO WHAT'S BEST FOR THE UNBORN CHILD! good luck and just know that you may lose some people around you, but most will stay and they will be invaluable in terms of being there as a support team...someday you will look back on this and realize that with the exception of a few weeks/months of heartache, everyone will come out on the other side better off. DO WHAT'S BEST FOR THE UNBORN CHILD!

exactly...until they change that policy...what's the big deal...my goodness..

isn't her last name loosely translated to 'good-friend'? what an idiot...

that Virginia State Gospel Choir were really entertaining...that comedian was pretty interesting, i want to hear more of his stuff. so far there's been some good talent on tonights show.

she was awful and very condescending....she plain sucked

i know the number but i usually mess up on the area code...

I really enjoy Nick Cannon as well. he is very entertaining and very personable on the show

holy crap, that was awesome...i did NOT see that one coming....

I can't say enough how easy on the eyes Heidi Klum & Mel B are,,,

it's time for more!

i knew he was a teacher/principal. I would be interested in reading more, that excerpt was pretty interesting