I'm no Pollyanna (and certainly not when it comes to the speed limit), but this is about more than a muscle car getting into someone's head -- that sh!t makes your community (your kids?) less safe, and is a risk to the football team as well. Call the team, you'll probs get some PR dude, and tell them someone needs to pull that kid aside and tell him to wise up - he's putting himself, your community, and the team's multi-million dollar investment at risk. Football playin young men don't HAVE to be stupid.
I'm not sure his insurance will cover the grieving of the family - and the damage to the locker room?