I still think these is skeevy and just plain weird, but with all the #metoo and sexual assault accusations going on, I kind of get the appeal. Who the hell knows what you can even do anymore. Are you supposed to let the woman make the first move? If you e lean in for a kiss and she pulls away is that assault? Is it assault at the time or 30 years later? I saw picrure of a banner hanging up on a campus that read "Just because she's too scared to say no, doesnt mean it's not assault." That there is scary.