Sounds easy, but not reality. Know any sports psychologists?
I have seen an 0-18 team beat a 16-2 team. Try and tell me those players respected their opponent, no matter how much it was drilled into them.
Good for you for reaching out and good luck to you! I am rooting for you!
I have to say that I am really impressed with the response to this thread. Not saying I am surprised, but just really impressed with my fellow Bills fans in how they have stepped up when someone is looking for assistance.
About 10years ago my group stopped on the way out when we noticed a couple of idiots giving you a hard time. 2 other cars stopped as well. Problem solved quickly.