you cant compare these different situations... then you have to go on what really matters to you. for me- big ben: no charges mean i have no idea what to really think so i lean towards innocent until proven guilty. stallworth: horrible accident i believe he was truely sorry for. Marshawn: just dumb. vick: malicious horrible person, i dont think he's sorry for more than getting caught. merriman: in the position many pros get put in but overall i'm not worried about him.