Is this post serious? Are you currently in a relationship? My wife had sworn off dating right before we met. Every guy she met was an immature douchebag only concerned about getting as much tail as he could, no matter the source. When an older, mature guy like myself entered the situation, she was stunned at how selfless and thoughtful I was. NO guy her age had ever acted like that before. It's attitudes like yours that gives guys a bad name, and make it immensly difficult for guys without an agenda to interact with women.