Wow, Ballantyne.
I grew up there. You guys should have seen it twenty years ago. The roads that used to be there there don't even exist anymore.
Township Grill was the spot in the heyday. My brother worked there for years. Haven't been there in over ten years. Near the end of the run, it was way crowded, you needed to get there by 11 to get a seat. Don't know about now.
I agree with everyone here, the traffic there is out of control. You will absolutely hate driving there. It doesn't matter where you live in the area, you will be affected by it. There is no escape.
There is golf all over the place, and these days finding Bills fans there shouldn't be a problem. Now in 1981, it was a different story. I think I was the only one.
Good luck to you and your family!