talking to me? No chance, never was a chance or a desire. She is since remarried and I am "enjoying" my single life a bit too much.
To John from Hemet, you couldn't be more spot on...tough times absolutely go away, eventually. One day you will look back and be amazed that you were able to come through the other side. For the time being, be mad, be sad, be reflective. Use the time to get your life/**** in order. Learn to live single, don't go running into a new relationship too soon.