Welcome to why I don't coach anything anymore. I coached baseball a couple times, football I coached a year and ref'ed a year, did soccer for my daughters team, Even helped with a basketball team as an assistant. Other then the soccer team, I never had children playing, I did it because I like teaching, because someone had to do it, and frankly I was pretty good at it.
But alas, I decided I hated dealing the the one or two bad attitude children, and the more prevelant bad attitude parents.
Oh and everyone played where I put them period. Until the soccer team, then I had the , my kid won't play goal, or my child has foot problems and can only play up front, etc.... That was it.