Well, Mike Vick was convicted of killing dogs and served prison time for it. Big Ben, although very stupid, was not convicted of a crime in a court of law. He was, however, convicted in the court of Goodell and this is the basis for the suspension. Had he been charged and convicted/pled guilty to the charges, we would have a whole other ball game. By your same logic, you could say shooting yourself in the leg is worse than raping girls. Again, I am by no means condoning Ben's actions. All I am saying is he was not charged with a crime nor was he convicted. I think 4 games is a pretty stiff punishment for something that was alleged.