Probably not, but it'd be easier to understand than the vague "Something's wrong and I need some time to myself and I'm not ready for this right now and and and and and....." thing that she hit me with a couple days back. I still have no idea what the hell her problem is and it sounds like neither does she. She's friggin nuts.
Tell me about it.
She turned on the waterworks on Sunday before I even had a chance to say anything. So I get my arm around her because I can't stand seeing her upset and a few minutes later I realize it's impossible to go from there to telling her to "!@#$ off." I basically ended up shell-shocked until she left....and I started drinking.
It's the weirdest thing. We always had a great time together. Her friends were all enamored with me (I know this for a fact because one called her an hour after I met her (the friend) to tell my ex how great she thought I was and I heard her jabbering away on the phone until my ex interrupted with "uh, yeah, he's here now."). But maybe something was missing. I never daydreamed about or projected any big future with her but I figured that was because I was getting too old for that puppy love, high school infatuation stuff. I just looked forward to seeing her day to day (and not just for physical reasons).
I really doubt she was banging some other dude, but I could see her wanting someone else. Also, like I mentioned 100 posts ago, she was real religious so maybe her spending Thursday night at Bible Study and Friday night with me (obviously not studying the Bible) was a little too weird for her. Beats me.....