I actually work out and am not a fat ugly mess, but yes, many men are fat and ugly, however so are most women these days. Hence the reason many of us wish more women were cuter. Just look around in your place of work, how many women are not land whales these days? It's troubling.
I just watched the Apollo 11 documentary the other day with 100% original footage, take a look at the body types of the women back then and compare to today, so sad.